autism101, (edited ) to actuallyautistic
@autism101@mstdn.social avatar

Some autistic people find making phone calls extremely stressful and unpleasant and will avoid them at all costs.

Please don’t try and force your communication preferences on others.

image: https://shreyadoodles.com
@actuallyautistic

neurovagrant, to random
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just saw this elsewhere and had to share it, because lol too real

ZoDoneRightNow, to science

I would appreciate it if people could help me get more federated on my new instance. Please boost this post if any of the following tags apply to you so I can follow!

#actuallyautistic
#adhd
#disabilityrights
#auspol
#trans
#lgbtqia
#socialism
#communism
#leftist
#maths
#computerscience
#science
#sciencefiction
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#plushies
#calckey

animelphabet, to random
newtsoda, to art

There has been a lot of research about autistics over the years, but this one really took the cake! 🍰

Find out what happened when researchers attempted to compare the moral compass of autistic and non-autistic people... (1/2)

A girl is seen clutching a sack of money, cackling wickedly. She has little devil horns and a tail. The comic text reads: This is what the study discovered: Allistic people were more likely to support the bad cause. The higher the monetary reward was, the more likely they were to do so. The girl is seen fawning over a pile of money with hearts in her eyes. She gasps “Wow!”, her mouth wide open. The comic goes on to say that allistics were more likely to support the bad cause in the private setting. One panel shows the girl in a group of people, with a halo over her head and sweating nervously as she lies, “I don't support it!” In the next panel the devil horns have returned, and she is alone in the room with a wicked grin, clutching the sack of money as she says, “Give me the money!”
Autistics, on the other hand, were much less likely to support the bad cause. And their answer stayed the same, regardless of the setting. The first comic panel shows an autistic girl playing with the kittens from the first page. The second panel shows the girl turning up her nose at the stack of money. In both panels the girl says determinedly, “No way!” The comic then asks: So, how did the researchers feel about these results? Well... They concluded that autistics were too concerned with their principles and morals. The panel shows the researcher tapping a sign showing the girl and the cat crossed out; the text reads, “Bad!”. The comic goes on to say that the researchers framed the results as a negative thing. It shows three shortened excerpts from the research paper, which read as follows: Excessive valuation of negative consequences when judging the moral appropriateness or permissibility of actions. Inflexible when following a moral rule even though an immoral action can benefit them. ASD individuals, unlike healthy control subjects...

dorgaldir, to Autism
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autism101, to actuallyautistic
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Small talk and conversations can be really hard for autistic people.

#ActuallyAutistic @actuallyautistic

image: Izzy@autieselfcare

animelphabet, to PetBirds

Thought I'd do an #introduction
I'm Ellie, a #ceramicist specialising in #birds and #wildlife
I am #actuallyautistic and trying to be brave by branching out into the big wide world a little more.
Figured the best introduction would be one showing off my newest piece out of the kiln, this tree full of the #owls of the UK.

White background with white Stoneware tree trunk, inlaid with windows for 5 owls. The visible owls are short eared owl and tawny owl.

AutisticManager, to random
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If you know an autistic person, you’re probably aware that April is “Autism Awareness Month.” What you might not know, however, is that April is a month of pure hell for folx.

The concept originated in 1970, when we understood a lot less about autism than we do today. Since then, the month has been co-opted by groups like Autism Speaks for fundraising. But what neurotypical people don’t realize is that the vast majority of these groups are actually

considered to be hate-groups by the community. So much of the discourse and dialogue around autism has centered NT people. When you consider NTs to be the ‘norm’ and NDs to be outside of that norm, the discussion veers toward “how do we help them be normal?”

It's a thread! 🧵

skinnylatte, to food
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I'm and I know food preparation is difficult for many folks in the community.

But learning to feed yourself is a skill that has cascading effects (I get severely depressed if I don't feed myself food I like). Not to mention, not everyone has the $$ for takeout

I've been sending this 'sad bastards cookbook' to everyone https://archive.org/details/sad-bastards-last

It focuses on 'boil water and eat' and 'ingredients that don't go bad'

transponderings, to random

If you are Autistic, living in one of the following US states, and you go to a doctor, you are liable to be put on a state register and may be involved in medical research without your consent

• Delaware
• Indiana
• New Hampshire
• New Jersey
• North Dakota
• Rhode Island
• Utah
• West Virginia

Petition the American Civil Liberties Union to challenge the laws that require Autistic people to be registered: https://www.change.org/p/tell-the-aclu-to-fight-mandatory-autism-databases

Thanks to @yourautisticlife for drawing my attention to this

#ActuallyAutistic #AllAutistics #petition https://mast.yourautisticlife.com/@yourautisticlife/110984149497536138

wakehamAMR, to ADHD
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autism101, to actuallyautistic
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It’s ridiculous that SSI in the U.S. isn’t enough to even cover basic housing anywhere.

@actuallyautistic

https://www.disabilityscoop.com/2024/02/05/ssi-recipients-cant-afford-housing-anywhere-in-the-us/30731/

SleepyCatten, to mentalhealth

PSA

If you're struggling right now & finding yourself able to do less than your hypothetical best, whatever you can do currently is you giving 100%.

It doesn't matter if you're only achieving 20% or less of your theoretical maximum: that 20% is your new 100%.

So, please be kinder to yourself, okay? :PleadingFace: :MentalHealthFlagHeart: :DisabilityPrideHeart: :NeurodiversitySymbol:

independentpen, to random
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Alt text isn't just helpful for the sight-impaired. By reading alt text I can identify what the OP is calling attention to in the pic, helping me get the joke or social commentary that would otherwise be illegible to me. (Without this I'm like, I see a thousand details and I don't know which one matters to you.) #ActuallyAutistic

KaCi, to random
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Does anyone have any idea where to find a sensory friendly, affordable apartment in Germany? I am currently trying to move back to Cologne (because my friends live there), but it seems to be impossible.
Which city/area in the West or North of Germany can you recommend for an female person and her cute Beagle?
If you can't help please boost.

Sterkpil, to disability

The horrible things we as disabled people are pushed through "because we're able to" do them, is incredibly concerning.

It so often pushes us into survival mode, where getting through the thing is our only focus, and it DEEPLY damages our health and wellbeing in the process.

We deserve the accommodations we need to actually live, not just survive, and as far as possible, thrive and be happy.

LaserMistress, to random
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Autism facts I did not know:

  • The first person to ever be diagnosed autistic died last year.

  • Autism and ADHD were considered fully mutually exclusive, in the DSM-5, until 2013, and comorbidity rare for a while after.

  • Research shows ~50-80% of Autistic folks show ADHD traits, and ~30-40% of ADHD folks show Autistic traits.

  • The Monotropism questionnaire, which blows previous unified research and theories away, came out last summer.

Sources below.

autism101, to actuallyautistic
@autism101@mstdn.social avatar

Autistic people may be dealing with many other issues, dubbed comorbidities by the medical community. I've listed some of them in the mind map below. Many can’t be seen by others.

@actuallyautistic

autism101, to actuallyautistic
@autism101@mstdn.social avatar

For me it isn’t just making friends that can be difficult, but keeping them too.

image: @oh_sograceful

#AskingAutistics #ActuallyAutistic @actuallyautistic

kasdeya, to random

I feel overqualified

brohrer, to random
@brohrer@recsys.social avatar

Every time someone asks for feedback I do a calibration. What level do they want?

L0: praise. “You did great!”
L1: small. “That font could be larger”
L2: medium. “Your story would be stronger if you ran these other simulations.”
L3: large. “Your need for external validation is preventing you from being decisive.”
L4: existential. “Your field is steadily becoming irrelevant. There is no ethical consumption under capitalism. We’re decaying into fascism. None of this matters.”

hosford42, to actuallyautistic
@hosford42@techhub.social avatar

Requirements to put in a job description to discourage or filter out autistic people:

  • Comfortable with ambiguity
  • Strong people skills
  • Good culture fit
  • Multitasking
  • A fast-paced dynamic environment
  • Bachelor's degree or better

I see these things and think you don't want my >30 years of programming and machine learning experience, or my problem-solving skills and comprehensive knowledge that had people mistaking me for one of the team's PhDs, or my solutions that have proven patent-worthy. Your loss.


@actuallyautistic
@neurodivergence

BZBrainz, to Autism
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@actuallyautistic

Tweet shared to the FB group Feral Neurodivergent Raging Meme Posting and now here with you. I’ve been down and this was the first thing that made me laugh today. I hope it makes you laugh too. #actuallyautistic #autism #autistic

gachipon, to random
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The amount of times this has happened

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