girlonthenet, to relationships
@girlonthenet@mastodon.social avatar

"As a society, we don’t have well-trodden paths and norms for relationships."

Today's fabulous NEW guest blog is about the search for contentment when our standard scripts don't seem to have the answers.

https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/all-the-what-ifs/

andyb, to random

Dear @rowyn,
I just finished The Princess, Her Dragon, and Their Prince. It was amazingly sweet. I adored the characters to bits and finished the story happy with the ending yet sad to leave. This is a great example of positive polyamorous representation and I will be reading the rest of your work.

Dear Everyone Else, buy this charming triad romance fantasy here:
https://books2read.com/princessdragonprince

Love, Andy

#polyamorous #TriadRomance #PolyamorousFiction #PolyamorousRomance #RomanceFantasy #dragons

thisisskaly, to random
@thisisskaly@mastodon.social avatar

Polyamory question.

Can thrupples of 1 female and 2 males marry anywhere?

I know in some countries polygamy of one male and a few females is allowed

But say a girl has two bisexual boyfriends and they're all dating each other

Can they get married anywhere? Or have a civil partnership recognised legally the same as marriage?

#polyamory #poly #polyamorous

JigglyWyvern, to trans

#introduction #intro

My name is Zee, I'm a #polyamorous #bisexual #trans #transfem #genderflux #audhd entity and I’m very likely a mess most of the time ​:drgn_hyper:​

When I am not losing my mind, #gaming and #tech are my deal also a huge #linux nerd. MMO's are my go to, and I'm a pretty huge #GuildWars2 and #FFXIV fan as well a massive #Charr lover ​:drgn_rainbow:​

I’ve been trying to get into #blender as well, love 3D art and all the joys that come from working #3dmodeling stuff. Huge into #art and expressing creativity of all kinds, hoping to do more so myself 🎨 ​:drgn_happy:​

Very much a #furry likely a #wyvern ​:drgn_verified:​ although still working and exploring that and hoping to find more furry friends here. #kinky and pretty lewd at times ​:drgn_flat_blush:​

To note that I have been in and out from here alot I typically find it hard to stay online or anywhere really as I feel unwanted heavily at times very much a trauma response forgive me, I am working on this one and sorry for any trouble this has cause ​:drgn_lol_nervous:​

So yes I am that same Zee that has instance hopped to no end and likely followed you at some stage then appeared elsewhere, really hope that isn't too annoying ​:drgn_flat_nervous:​

But anywho would love to get back on here again and reconnect with folks I use to talk to. Oh and boost are greatly appreciated ​:drgn_nuzzle:​

toplesstopics, to philosophy
@toplesstopics@eldritch.cafe avatar

TL;DR #introduction post because I'm too prone to verbosity:

  • #toplessEquality / #freeTheNipple #feminist #activist who tries to raise awareness about many other #progressive / #leftist issues using the "clickbait" of my heinous female nipples on my video series Topless Topics (you can search by subject or interviewee at https://www.toplesstopics.org to see the #patriarchy -unfriendly version on Peertube or the super- #censorship version on Youtube)
  • also a #videoGame enthusiast, mostly #survivalCrafting but down for anything but sports and realistic shooters, mostly. Also dabble in #tabletop #TTRPG s and other board games but it's hard to find the right balance between "boringly easy" and "so complicated I get too frustrated and give up before the first role of the dice"
  • #artist / crafter, mostly #digitalIllustration but dabbling in a lot in other crafts like #crochet #cosplay #painting #jewelrymaking and a lot else
  • #neurodivergent especially #ADHD and "high functioning" autism (I love to carry on conversations and try my best not to do all the talking, but I have a hard time reading peoples' true emotions so I default to thinking everyone's mad at me all the time 😂 )
  • #animal fan, especially #cat and #reptile s. All pets are good pets tho!
  • #queer #polyamorous #bisexual , pro- #sexWorker though not a sex worker myself (despite all my videos getting categorized as "sexually explicit nudity" 🙄 )
  • love watching movies and shows about #fantasy #sciFi and #horror -- #psychologicalHorror and/or so-called #elevatedHorror rather than guts and jump scares. I used to read a lot of fantasy and romance also, but social media broke my brain so I have a hard time staying focused on books now 😩
  • also love #comics especially #webcomics and #satire . Not really into superhero type comics, unless they're the newer ones like the "New 52". I prefer self-contained series with a little bit of weirdness to them like Saga, Rat Queens, and a bunch others I can't remember the names of right now. Often I'll go to the library and check out a fat stack of whatever comics they have, mostly standalones though since they rarely have multiple comic books in a series available in sequential order.

Oops I got too wordy again, better cut it off here 😅

Basically, holler at me if you're a progressive, a gamer, or a parent who is also one or both of the other two things!

fluffypaws, to transmasc
@fluffypaws@cooltrans.men avatar

hello fedisphere! :BhjFlag_Transgender: :BhjFlag_TransMasc: :BhjFlag_Polytricolor:

i'm joshie, your local thirty something puppy boy ( he / him ) from brisbane / meanjin.

i'm , , & & live with my anchor partner, @JigglyWyvern. we have four cats & i will definitely post a lot of pictures of them. my other partner, @CyberSaloperie, lives in france :neofox_heart:

i love ! some of my current favourite games are , , , , & . i'm primarily a steam / pc gamer, but i also have a switch. hmu if you wanna be steam / switch friends!

( golden retriever ) & ( also golden retriever, plus a few others ). i bark a lot and sometimes i bite :3 i will be posting a lot of thoughts about being both therian & furry.

i read like most people breath, mostly & , or as i like to call it, . i also read a lot of books. i'm a queer romantasy writer myself, currently working on a novel about a transmasc werewolf & a non-binary vampire that start a polycule full of other supernatural creatures. you can find more about my writing on @fluffypawswrites.

i love all kinds of , & i've been trying to get into & of late. i love & , though i'm not very good at it, but i have fun anyway.

i'm known to be a lewdposter, however i try to keep to contained to my after dark account, [i will add the link once my ad account has been approved]. feel free to follow me there for more hornyposting.

this is not the first instance i've been on, so you have likely seen me around the fedisphere before, but i'm hoping this will be the last for a long time :Blobhaj_Love:

i'd love to make connections with other trans, queer, autistic, adhd, therian, furry etc folks, so please give this a boost so i can find my people :neofox_flag_trans:

PanTransAutie, to Autism

Hello, everyone! My name is Ray and my pronouns are he/him. I'm a thirty year old pansexual trans male autie, hence my username. I'm also an anarcho-communist intersectional feminist.

My special interests include but aren't limited to: Japanese pop culture, pop music, social justice and video games.

I hope to get to know and befriend other users who share similar interests and beliefs.

skaly, to random

Question to other people who used to be poly but are now committed to 2 or more partners.
Do you still consider yourself poly?
If it's a triad long term committed relationship, do you tell people you're poly?
I just feel like it implies we're open to more relationships when we aren't, but saying monogamous doesn't make sense either.

(Been with one boyfriend for 3 years and the other for soon 1 year).

SimonRoyHughes, to Norway
@SimonRoyHughes@thefolklore.cafe avatar

#AmWriting a hitherto uncomposed #bisexual, #polyamorous #folktale collected in 1870, in Valle, Aust Agder, in southern #Norway. Nominally AT550 (the golden bird), though the only birds are two crow witches.

This folktale even escaped the attention of Oddbjørg Høgset, the editor of Erotiske folkeeventyr (which forms the foundation of my book from 2017, Erotic Folktales from Norway), because the record lives in a letter to Peter Christen Asbjørnsen, rather than in the folktale notebooks.

@folklore @folklorethursday #NorwegianFolktales

DoomsdaysCW, to AncientHistory

So, I had to talk about ! A warrior society focused on war, women had more rights than their counterparts -- and were encouraged to be physically fit and prepared to fight to defend their homeland.

Sparta

Unlike their Greek counterparts, the women of Sparta had a lot more freedom and status. They were educated, since they would be in charge of keeping the homeland running smoothly while the men were at war – but they were also strong and able to defend themselves and their homeland.

Spartan men and women lived in separate quarters – even while married. Married couples would leave their respective quarters to procreate, and Spartan wives were required to have short hair and sometimes wore men’s clothing.

Amongst married couples, the Spartans were relatively , and women were not punished for infidelity.

fluffypaws, to trans

​:froggie:​ new #introduction! ​:froggie:​

🌻 joshie ( gay frog edition ).

🌻 thirty something #trans masc puppy boy, m-spec & #polyamorous.

🌻 #autistic & #adhd.

🌻 lover of #books, #writing, #gaming, #dnd, #horror, #plants, #animals, #furry, & #nature.

🌻 if you want constant pictures of #cats, i've got you covered!

🌻 frequent shitposter & lewdposter.

elazar, to dating
@elazar@phpc.social avatar

A question for my #poly peeps about #dating: how do you find prospective new partners?

The few options I've found don't seem very promising...

#open has too few users.

Feeld's monthly cost rivals Netflix.

OKCupid's monthly cost is ridiculous.

FB Dating isn't poly-centric.

Are there better options?

#polyamorous

SleepyZee, to trans

Heres my #introduction

My name is Zee, I'm a #polyamorous #bisexual #trans #genderflux #audhd entity and I’m very likely a mess most of the time 😅

When I am not losing my mind, #gaming and #tech are my deal also a huge #linux nerd. #MMO's are my go to, and I'm a pretty huge #GuildWars2 and #FFXIV fan.

I’ve been trying to get into #blender as well, love 3D art and all the joys that come from working #3dmodeling stuff. Huge into #art and expressing creativity of all kinds, hoping to do more so myself.

Very much a #furry likely a #wyvern :dragnloaf: although still working and exploring that and hoping to find more furry friends here.

Stupidly #kinky and pretty much a #nudist here at this stage fuck clothing 🤣

Other interests are linked on my profile if I sound interesting feel free to follow, would love to talk to more cool folks here :dragnhappy:

Oh and boost are greatly appreciated 👍

sunflower, to ADHD

time for a proper #introduction.

i'm azriel, a 31 year old #polyamorous #autistic #adhd #trans #witch. i live with my nesting partner & our four #cats (which i will be posting a lot of pictures of!).

lover of #books ( #sff #fantasy #queerfiction ), #writing, #gaming, #dnd, #horror, #plants, #animals, #witchcraft, #furry, & #nature.

i will post a lot about my struggles with #mentalhealth, & i'd like to connect with other #audhd folk!

come say hi & lets be friends!

discoveringpolyamory, to random
@discoveringpolyamory@mastodon.world avatar
toplesstopics, to Podcast
@toplesstopics@eldritch.cafe avatar

So longtime friend of the Topless Topics community mrich (as we all know him by) and I have been tossing around a idea for a while (I know, I know...this one will be good though, I promise ;p) and I could use y'alls help in solidifying the concept before we jump in to making it.

Basically, the thought is to provide two different but respectful opinions on a variety of subjects--I'm a cis white woman "coastal elite" from California, he's a cis black man from the South, and we're both and huge nerds (especially !) We're also both (and of course / ) supporters, raised / though I reject the specific label these days (I got a whole video about it at toplesstopics.org/nomorenudism if you're curious), and - I'm and , he's straight and monogamous, but totally cool with other models, as long as it's all . We also (so many commonalities!) are both quite - he's mainly into while I'm into both and .

While we're still figuring out the structure of the podcast, the idea is to have a few somewhat disparate sections to it - gaming/ / /etc, then brief reaction to current / (like , , , anti- , and so much more), and (hopefully) an interview with someone interesting ( , , , etc...whoever we can find that seems like they'd be a good fit for the pod! Then finally, maybe an "ask us anything" advice/reaction section to round out the episode.

I'm thinking we aim for <= 2 hours, one episode per month, but if we really get into it, maybe an episode every other week. I'm still gonna have to edit it and I have a lot else on my plate so I don't want to overextend myself too much. If we happen to stumble into wild success maybe I could hire someone else to do that part in the future, then we could record more often :p

On some subjects, of course I will defer to his expanded first-hand experience, like . And on other subjects, it'll be mostly my turn to step onto the soapbox, namely about what it's like to be a woman in this world. We've chatted for many hours over the years and always gotten along swimmingly, so I don't anticipate undue friction in the longterm (a benefit of having so many like-minded opinions already). But I still think we have enough difference in life experiences to provide an interesting perspective on a variety of topics.

What do you think? Does any of that seem interesting to you? What kinds of things / people to interview would you like to see on a podcast created by a pair of different similar leftist nerds? Would you listen to such a podcast? Please, lay your feedback on me! All replies welcome, as long as you're not being a total jerk ❤️

gryphonEschmidt, to queer

Okay #FediWriters hit me with your short story writing resources.

Specifically pacing/outline related.

Genre is #Queer #Paranormal #Polyamorous #Romance with a heist..ish...still figuring that part out.

wertercatt, to transgender

New instance, new #introduction

Hi all, I'm a #transgender #polyamorous #lesbian.
I post a lot about playing or collecting games, and about cool old tech.
I'm also a pretty vocal anyarcho-communist and will post about injustices and shit.
I'm planning on making my own instance Soon​:tm:​ when I can fix my #homeserver but while that's underway, I'll be posting here.

chizmanoga, to queer

Hey everyone, I’m #newhere, a #Bosnian #queer guy living in #Berlin, #Germany.

I’m interested in thought-provoking #literature, well-written #videogames, #leftist #politics, #trashTV and #baking tasty things. I used to curate and organize cultural events (I still moderate readings once in a while), and nowadays I work in #communitybased #HIVprevention.

#Polyamorous, #sexpositive, #nerdy. @Redfern's partner 💗

Looking forward to this journey!

Dragon, to trans

Well let me try this again, again, again here's hoping I stick around this time. This is my #intro/#introductions

My name is Zee, I'm a #trans #genderfluid entity, 90% liquid 10% cardboard. I'm in my 30s #autistic #adhd as fuck and I live with my nesting partner, we are #polyamorous. #Furry and probs a #dragon. Very much love #Charr and all things #art and #fantasy. Learning/novice at #blender, love #3d artwork and hope I create something good one day. #Tattoo and #piercing enthusiast, currently inked, very much looking to get more. Pretty much a #nudist, enjoy the freedom from this. #Bi and #gay as fuck as well with being super #kinky. Have 4 #cats (need more) and very into #tech and #gaming. Huge #MMO nerd current playing #GW2 and #FFXIV.

nillinlore, to trans

#introduction: Hi! I'm a #trans #queer, #polyamorous, and #Autistic #sex blogger, author, and editor.

My #NSFW blog, https://mxnillin.com, ranked 1st in The Top 100 #SexBlog of 2021. Outside of blogging I've had queer #erotica published in several anthologies. In 2022 I edited "Heckin' Lewd: Trans and Non-binary Erotica" for Bold Strokes Books. I also co-wrote Chapter 16 for the 2nd Edition of "Trans Bodies, Trans Selves", a 2023 Lambda Literary Award finalist from Oxford University Press.

sunflower, to ADHD

i've moved to a new instance, so it's time for a fresh #introduction.

i'm a 31 year old #polyamorous #autistic #adhd #trans #witch. i live with my nesting partner & our four #cats (which i will be posting a lot of pictures of!).

lover of #books ( #sff #fantasy #queerfiction ), #writing, #gaming, #dnd, #horror, #plants, #animals, #witchcraft, #furry, & #nature.

i will post a lot about my struggles with #mentalhealth, & i'd like to connect with other #audhd folk!

come say hi & lets be friends!

SpaitialEnby, to nonbinary

Wanted to do a better #introduction post.

Henlo! I'm Jax 25 #Nonbinary Thembo. I work in #tech and am very excited about things. I have a (well taken care of) hoarde of animals from cats to snakes. I'm #neurodivergent #queer #polyamorous. I #paint (#oils, #acrylics and #spray) which can be found on my #redbubble #fineartsamerica #instagram (soon to be pixelfed) . I have a #pathfinder battle royale-style podcast thing. And I'm #lookingforwork I have several posts on this.

WeAreBrisbane, to random

Good morning and Happy Monday all!

I'm Ada, and I'm behind the wheel of WeAreBNE this week!

Some stuff about me

  • I've lived in Brisbane since the mid 90s
  • I work in government (but won't talk about that much)
  • I am addicted to #parkrun (I just did my 200th)
  • I'm in a #polyamorous relationship
  • Mum to an 18 year old
  • I am the co-admin of a queer and gender diverse focused fediverse instance

But now, it's time to go for a #run! See you on the other side

eri, to trans

i've been on fedi for years and i don't know that i've ever done an #introduction post ^_^'

i go by erika or eri (she/her). i'm #trans and #polyamorous and live with a beautiful chosen family of three partners along with our #cat and two #turtles

i post a lot about my personal life and silly antics we get into, my #transition and #wellness journeys, #retrogaming, #retrocomputing, #electronicmusic, and all manner of special interests otherwise

if you're new here, welcome! :-)

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