br00t4c, to random
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Watch Lucille Ball repeatedly tell a host to take his hands off female audience members

https://www.upworthy.com/watch-lucille-ball-repeatedly-tell-host-to-take-his-hands-off-of-women-in-the-audience

genderUIBK, to innsbruck German
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We are looking forward to the last Lecture of this study year: Tat­jana Takševa from the Saint Mary’s University in Canada talks about "Tracing the Maternal through a Perspective"!
-> Wednesday, 22nd of May at 6pm, Hörsaal 5, GEIWI, Innrain 52e @uniinnsbruck

More information:
https://www.uibk.ac.at/de/geschlechterforschung/veranstaltungen/2024/84-innsbrucker-gender-lecture-mit-tajana-takseva-22-mai-2024/

br00t4c, to random
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'Vivas Nos Queremos': Mexican Feminists on Femicide and the Country's First Woman President

https://msmagazine.com/2024/05/13/mexico-feminists-femicide-first-woman-president/

nus, to conservative
@nus@mstdn.social avatar

Unsurprising, but very sad: conservative "" influencer discovered being in a "traditional" marriage felt like being enslaved, she felt compelled to rationalize her husband's abuse, & the "anti-feminist" life was incredibly lonely and made her want to die:
https://unherd.com/2024/05/lauren-southern-the-tradlife-influencer-filled-with-regret/

(Stolen from on Twitter: https://twitter.com/NathanJRobinson/status/1787518162440708421) @liveposting

There were warning signs from early on. “If I ever disagreed with him in any capacity he’d just disappear, for days at a time. I remember there were nights where he’d call me worthless and pathetic, then get in this car and leave.” But she didn’t see them, thanks to the simplified anti-feminist ideology she’d absorbed and promoted: “I had this delusional view of relationships: that only women could be the ones that make or break them, and men can do no wrong.” So she didn’t spot the red flags, even as they grew more extreme. “He’d lock me out of the house. I remember having to knock on the neighbour’s door on rainy nights, because he’d get upset and drive off without unlocking the house. It was very strange, to go from being this public figure on stage with people clapping, to the girl crying, knocking on someone’s door with no home to get into, being abandoned with a baby.”
For, she tells me, she’s not alone. She tells me she knows many other women still suffering in unhappy “tradlife” marriages. One of her WhatsApp groups, she says, “is like the Underground Railroad for women in the conservative movement”. Some of these are prominent media figures: “There are a lot of influencers who are not in good relationships, who are still portraying happy marriage publicly, and bashing people for not being married while being in horrendous relationships.” She hopes that in speaking out she can reassure “all of these women who are thinking in their heads: I’m uniquely terrible, and I’m uniquely making a mistake” that no: something is more generally amiss.
All of this was, Southern tells me, difficult to square with her religious beliefs. She would pray by his bed when he was angry with her, hoping that if she gave him grace one more time he’d realise the depth of her love and be kinder. And if this didn’t work, she was encouraged to persist by the way online life had conditioned these beliefs into “listicle” form. But as she discovered, distilling religious traditionalism into viral bullet points does not provide an adequate framework for navigating the complexities of a real-world marriage. She thought, she told me, that “as long as I put on the high heels and the lipstick when my husband comes home, as long as I cook the best meal, as long as I’m always submissive, and say yes, sir, whatever you want, things will go fantastic.” And if it’s not fantastic? The listicle version of traditionalism would just say she should make more effort. It was, she says, “an embarrassing wake up call, finding myself consistently applying these rules and instructions I found on Twitter, and then never getting the results they were supposed to get, in the real realm of relationships”.

nus, to conservative
@nus@mstdn.social avatar

Unsurprising, but very sad: conservative "" influencer discovered being in a "traditional" marriage felt like being enslaved, she felt compelled to rationalize her husband's abuse, & the "anti-feminist" life was incredibly lonely and made her want to die.

https://unherd.com/2024/05/lauren-southern-the-tradlife-influencer-filled-with-regret/

(Stolen from Twitter - to be precise) @liveposting

There were warning signs from early on. “If I ever disagreed with him in any capacity he’d just disappear, for days at a time. I remember there were nights where he’d call me worthless and pathetic, then get in this car and leave.” But she didn’t see them, thanks to the simplified anti-feminist ideology she’d absorbed and promoted: “I had this delusional view of relationships: that only women could be the ones that make or break them, and men can do no wrong.” So she didn’t spot the red flags, even as they grew more extreme. “He’d lock me out of the house. I remember having to knock on the neighbour’s door on rainy nights, because he’d get upset and drive off without unlocking the house. It was very strange, to go from being this public figure on stage with people clapping, to the girl crying, knocking on someone’s door with no home to get into, being abandoned with a baby.”
For, she tells me, she’s not alone. She tells me she knows many other women still suffering in unhappy “tradlife” marriages. One of her WhatsApp groups, she says, “is like the Underground Railroad for women in the conservative movement”. Some of these are prominent media figures: “There are a lot of influencers who are not in good relationships, who are still portraying happy marriage publicly, and bashing people for not being married while being in horrendous relationships.” She hopes that in speaking out she can reassure “all of these women who are thinking in their heads: I’m uniquely terrible, and I’m uniquely making a mistake” that no: something is more generally amiss.
All of this was, Southern tells me, difficult to square with her religious beliefs. She would pray by his bed when he was angry with her, hoping that if she gave him grace one more time he’d realise the depth of her love and be kinder. And if this didn’t work, she was encouraged to persist by the way online life had conditioned these beliefs into “listicle” form. But as she discovered, distilling religious traditionalism into viral bullet points does not provide an adequate framework for navigating the complexities of a real-world marriage. She thought, she told me, that “as long as I put on the high heels and the lipstick when my husband comes home, as long as I cook the best meal, as long as I’m always submissive, and say yes, sir, whatever you want, things will go fantastic.” And if it’s not fantastic? The listicle version of traditionalism would just say she should make more effort. It was, she says, “an embarrassing wake up call, finding myself consistently applying these rules and instructions I found on Twitter, and then never getting the results they were supposed to get, in the real realm of relationships”.

Wildflowers4megan, to Anime
@Wildflowers4megan@mastodon.social avatar


An entry for the mental health junk journal.

"We call ships 'SHE'. We call our war machines 'WOMEN'. We compare women to black widows and vipers. And you are going to tell me it's not 'lady like' to scream, fight, take up space, and demand whatever the hell I want?
Don't try to down play my power."

sfwrtr, to 13thFloor
@sfwrtr@eldritch.cafe avatar

#WordWeavers 2404.29 — Who's feeling shame in your story? Is it justified?

/It's'a [#brainfog #fibromyalgia day, but I'm gonna write this to get something out. Hoping it's coherent. —RS/]

This question made me think hard for quite awhile until I—like an artist or a photographer deciphering how shadow defines volume and dimension—saw /negative space/ in a story... where something wasn't. Emptiness.

Wintereyes /doesn't/ feel #shame, and I'm realizing this is an #emotion with which I can make a #feminist point in my story. Whilst shame is IMHO used more often to control women than it is men, it is both incidious and /learned./ Shame is a combination of built-in emotions programmed into a person to make a person self-punish for "wrong" behavior even if it's secret; it's related to, but not the same as guilt.

Wintereyes was raised by wolves, but not until she was 7 when her "gift" caused her to seek a second set of parents. Her early childhood will require investigation in another story, but I'm pretty sure her human parents didn't teach her the emotion; it's not that she forgot. Forced to live again amongst humans over a decade later, to become more human, people's behavior baffles her. Late in the story, when she's asked to disrobe by stylist at a modeling shoot, and does without a thought, the stylist observes, "You don't feel shame, do you?" This is where Wintereyes will go off like a firecracker, and it should be very interesting.

The stylist may actually feel ashamed...

The author is [#actuallyautistic and retains copyright (c)2024 R..S.]

#BoostingIsSharing and #CommentingIsCool

#fiction #fantasy #sff #writing #writer #writers #author #writingcommunity #writersOfMastodon
#RSdiscussion
#RSstory #RSInklingsStory #psychology

br00t4c, to random
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An Introduction to Catalonia's Feminist Administration

https://msmagazine.com/2024/04/29/catalonia-feminist-women/

caos, to berlin German

@kurt@pod.thing.org:> Liebe Freundinnen und Kunstinteressierte,Feministische Künstlerinnen gestalten den und malen für eine gerechte und inklusive Stadt – Einblicke in ihre Projekte und Kämpfe zeigt die Netzwerk-Ausstellung Feminist City Utopia in der Galerie neurotitan mit einem außerordentlichen Begleitprogramm!

Wir laden herzlich ein zur Vernissage am 25.05.2024 um 18 Uhr und freuen uns über Ihre & Eure Teilnahme an zahlreichen Programmpunkten während der Ausstellung vom 25.05.-15.06.2024! Für die Bekanntgabe über Ihre & Eure netzwerke wären wir ebenso sehr dankbar – please spread the word!

Details im Überblick:
Feminist City Utopia
Eröffnung: 25.05.2024, 18 Uhr | Ausstellungsdauer: 25.05.-15.06.2024
Mo-Sa 12-20 Uhr | Galerie neurotitan, Rosenthaler Str. 39, 10178
Das aus der Graffiti- und Urban Art-Kultur hervorgegangene Netzwerk United Power lädt zur partizipativen Ausstellung ein, um gemeinsam Vorstellungen einer feministischen Stadt zu gestalten, zu diskutieren und auf visuelle Aktionsformen im öffentlichen Raum zu erweitern. In der entsteht eine transformierbare Stadtlandschaft, die feministische Utopien erfahrbar macht. Themen wie Gewalt gegen *, fehlende Räume und Infrastrukturen sowie Ausschlussmechanismen werden intersektional-feministische Vorstellungen gegenübergestellt. Kunstwerke dienen dabei als Vermittlung und Manifestationen von Optimismus und Empowerment. Andere Städte sind möglich und dies bedeutet im Rahmen der Ausstellung gerechte und inklusive Städte. Umfassendes Begleitprogramm mit Diskussionsabenden und Filmscreenings, Fassade Painting, Action Dinner, queerfeministischem Sommerfest mit Live-Acts zur Finissage u.v.m.!
KÜNSTLERINNEN Künstlerinnen von United Feminist Power zusammen mit: Alice Dee | Chili con Carne | Eva Kietzmann | Helena Her | Julia Nägeli | Lea Greub | Lena Fakler | Lena Stoehrfaktor | Lulia Ghirmay | Petra Kübert | PMS | Reclaim Your City | Sandra Rummler | Sbrama | Süß-Bande | Vlada und vielen mehr … REFERENT*INNEN Christoph May – Institut für Kritische Männlichkeitsforschung | Der Periodenladen | Emanzipatorisches Verhütungskollektiv Leipzig | Feminist Park Collective | Missoir | Susanne Fitzek – Hypographia Festival


https://pod.thing.org/uploads/images/e09b8e42887e4baed162.jpg

rdp, to random
@rdp@hachyderm.io avatar

I appreciate that Ikea offers a facility for baby-scolding

sfwrtr,
@sfwrtr@eldritch.cafe avatar

@rdp
I like that IKEA offers a facility where the mom has the dad change the baby.

#feminist pov

br00t4c, to random
@br00t4c@mastodon.social avatar
girlonthenet, to feminism
@girlonthenet@mastodon.social avatar

"When asked about #feminism by other men, I give friends three short requests:

Be an ally.
Notice your own prejudice.
Call out misogyny."

In case you missed it - last week's guest blog on being a #feminist dude!
https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/feminist-man-means-to-me/

br00t4c, to random
@br00t4c@mastodon.social avatar

From Rachel Carson to Wangari Maathai--Meet the Women Who Ignited Environmental Movements

#feminist

https://msmagazine.com/2024/04/22/intertwined-women-nature-and-climate-justice/

br00t4c, to random
@br00t4c@mastodon.social avatar

▶ "No Palestinian Is Safe": Renowned Feminist Scholar Nadera Shalhoub-Kevorkian Arrested in Jerusalem

#feminist

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VTmW_PSo9cU

br00t4c, to random
@br00t4c@mastodon.social avatar

"No Palestinian Is Safe": Renowned Feminist Scholar Nadera Shalhoub-Kevorkian Arrested in Jerusalem

http://www.democracynow.org/2024/4/19/shalhoub_kevorkian

girlonthenet, to random
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NEW guest blog: Paul talks about what being a #feminist man means to him, and the ways in which he tries to challenge #EverydaySexism and misogynist microaggressions when they arise... https://www.girlonthenet.com/blog/feminist-man-means-to-me/

weareopencoop, to random
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Quick question – Have you made sure your organisation is a ? No? Let us help you. Step one, check out our free resources:

https://blog.weareopen.coop/open-recognition-a-feminist-practice-for-more-equal-workplaces-f75b2d03d32c
https://learnwith.weareopen.coop/courses/fife/

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SharonCummingsArt, to Women
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br00t4c, to random
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The enduring feminist legacy of Hole: 30 years later, must we still "Live Through This"?

#feminist

https://www.salon.com/2024/04/11/hole-live-through-this-courtney-love/

br00t4c, to random
@br00t4c@mastodon.social avatar

In a first, international court upholds right to be safe from climate change

#court #feminist

https://www.theverge.com/2024/4/9/24125087/international-human-rights-court-judgement-climate-change-case

RadicalAnthro, to climate
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The reality that is a issue: Extreme heat affects women more than men.

'For women, the percentage change in mortality rate increased by 4.63% in 2000 to 2010 and 9.84% between 2010 and 2019'


https://www.downtoearth.org.in/news/climate-change/extreme-heat-affects-indian-women-more-than-men-analysis-finds-spike-in-deaths-due-to-high-heat-since-2005-95437

SharonCummingsArt, to art
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br00t4c, to random
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asbestos, to random
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My mom was getting her master's degree in Psychology was working with at risk girls , many had gotten pregnant, some more than once. She talked to them about birth control but the people in charge said that was forbidden. (late 1950's Indiana) my mom told them that was just ridiculous, as well as stupid. When she kept getting hassled left the program in disgust.
She was an old school #feminist

ewen, to random French
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