JaniceSelbie, to LGBTQ
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corbden, to infosec

: Howdy. I'm an author who specializes in tactics, , healing , and . My book deconstructs manipulation. I & part-time for a living. Before that, I worked in from 1996-2011.

In 2015 I left my abuser of seven years, and since have been disabled with and other chronic conditions, fighting . I was unable to work at all for five years. My personal narrative now is about recovery out of that . I'm usually in some kind of pain, and try not to whine too much about it. I'm (they/them) of recent transition, , and .

My interests are wide and varied and I will not remember them all here. I dabble in , writing, . DXed with circa 2010. obsessed with the . I love , , and thinking about .

Updates as I think of things.

JaniceSelbie, to Catholic
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If I lived closer, I would definitely attend. This one despicable #Catholic #doctrine has been responsible for countless #suffering & #ReligiousTrauma #greed #power The legal and theological theory of the Doctrine of Christian Discovery https://religionnews.com/2023/10/02/the-legal-and-theological-theory-of-the-doctrine-of-christian-discovery/

Jen_Lee, to random
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Hi, finally got my sweet ass over here, so here’s my #introduction:

JaniceSelbie, to Freedom
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Plagued by unrelenting shame for “normal” activities like masturbation, sex, or enjoying time doing nothing? SHAME IS OFTEN FUNDAMENTALIST RESIDUE. Wipe that sh!t off your shoe and give FREEDOM a try. Start small & work your way up to Big Ticket items. Life is a grand buffet - don’t starve to death because of religion.

JaniceSelbie, to science
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Psst: YOU ARE ALLOWED TO HAVE NEEDS! Growing up in a fundy home you may not have been permitted to express them; likewise if you grew up with a parent or sibling with a physical or mental illness. Make a list of your unmet needs & explore how you can meet them yourself. #ReligiousTrauma #Religion #indoctrination #emotions #needs #psychology #criticalthinking #Exchristian #science #reason #Equality #atheist #secular #humanist

JaniceSelbie, to random
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Why do I only post negative things about religion? Because I work with a demographic that bears the scars of religious #indoctrination. #ReligiousTrauma Syndrome refers to losses one suffers as part of a rigid, #authoritarian religious group - and the ADDITIONAL losses suffered upon #losingfaith & having ties severed from the group. Losses: #Identity, community, support, friendships, family, worldview, purpose, etc. Significant multiple #losses largely not recognized by outsiders. #exchristian

JaniceSelbie, to random
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#religioustrauma
Setting & enforcing #boundaries can feel frightening to those of us raised in religious families where #codependency was demanded.

JaniceSelbie, to syracuse
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Grateful to be attending the Religious Origins of White Supremacy conference this weekend at Syracuse University. #syracuse #onondaga #ReligiousTrauma #racism #WhiteChristianNationalism #humanism #growth

DZGrizzle, to queer
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JaniceSelbie, to religion
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Religious beliefs are no reason for vaccine exemption. Failing to vaccinate puts children at risk and reflects parental failure to protect them. #vaccines #religion #magicalthinking #danger #ReligiousTrauma #parenting #fail #accountability https://montanafreepress.org/2024/01/19/montanas-effort-to-expand-religious-exemptions-to-vaccines-prompts-political-standoff/

JaniceSelbie, to Women
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Religious trauma of the highest order. This despicable reign of ignorant, cruel, misogynistic religious terror must not be permitted to continue #ReligiousTrauma #ignorance #cruelty #misogyny #corrupt #taliban #Afghanistan #women #girls #education https://inews.co.uk/news/world/taliban-campaign-women-girls-bad-hijab-2847086?ito=smart-news

JaniceSelbie, to random
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Horrifying example of #ReligiousTrauma & #MagicalThinking left unchallenged: A mother who participated in the murder of her own children (and others). She is unlikely to relinquish her fantasies to accept responsibility for her horrendous actions. Mother facing life in prison for 'doomsday' plot | Watch Live News on ABCNL https://abcnews.go.com/US/live-updates/lori-vallow-daybell-sentencing/?id=101643337

JaniceSelbie, to ukteachers
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As #education increases, #superstition decreases. Religions that encourage belief in “the supernatural” are superstitious. #criticalthinking #ReligiousTrauma Meet the 'nones': An ever increasing group across Europe with little to no religious affiliation | Euronews https://www.euronews.com/2023/10/08/meet-the-nones-an-ever-increasing-group-across-europe-with-little-to-no-religious-affiliat

JaniceSelbie, to random
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CORT2023 starts in 10 days! Join us to learn about:
-Shame & #complextrauma

JaniceSelbie, to LGBTQ
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Extremely disturbing. Leading "ex-gay" conversion therapist has a disturbing history of domestic abuse - LGBTQ Nation https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2023/10/leading-ex-gay-conversion-therapist-has-a-disturbing-history-of-domestic-abuse/

JaniceSelbie, to random
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JaniceSelbie, to psychology
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#counselor #psychology #trauma #recovery If you are recovering from #ReligiousTrauma or if you are a #mentalhealth professional working with this demographic, don’t miss CORT - the #conference on Religious Trauma, taking place online October 20-22nd. I’m the founder & host of this annual event, and it is my labour of love for this community. Student Discounts & Partial Scholarships available. Www.religioustraumaconference.org

wdlindsy, to LGBTQ
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As Spencer Macnaughton reports, 1 in 3 American adults report that they have suffered from religious trauma. "Religious trauma occurs when an individual’s religious upbringing has lasting adverse effects on their physical, mental or emotional well-being, according to the Religious Trauma Institute."

#LGBTQ #ReligiousTrauma #WeaponizedReligion
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https://www.nbcnews.com/nbc-out/out-health-and-wellness/millions-lgbtq-americans-religious-trauma-psychiatrists-want-help-rcna135728

wdlindsy,
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"Experts say LGBTQ people — who represent more than 7% of the U.S. population, according to a 2023 Gallup poll — experience religious trauma at disproportionate rates and in unique ways. Very little research has been done in this field, but a 2022 study found that LGBTQ people who experience certain forms of religious trauma are at increased risk for suicidality, substance abuse, homelessness, anxiety and depression."

#LGBTQ #ReligiousTrauma #WeaponizedReligion
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JaniceSelbie, to mentalhealth
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It’s OK to choose preserving your own mental health over preserving relationships - even with family. #mentalhealth #ReligiousTrauma #estrangement #choices #boundaries #selfcare #selflove

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TheWildHuntNews, to LGBTQ
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New research finds that religious trauma is experienced by up to 30% of US adults, with LGBTQ+ individuals bearing the brunt of the damage. Mental health experts are advocating for religious trauma to be an official diagnosis.

https://wildhunt.org/2024/02/researchers-find-1-in-3-americans-suffer-from-religious-trauma-many-in-lgbtq-community.html

#sherm #gcrr #religioustrauma #lgbtq

JaniceSelbie, to Freedom
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I 💜 THIS! A #powerful recounting of #pain #fear #courage - and the victory of #freedom. #religioustrauma #lgbtq #pride #family It Took Decades For Me To Realize My #identity Was A Lie. I Was Prepared For Pain — But Not This. | HuffPost https://www.huffpost.com/entry/transgender-man-coming-out-sister_n_65284202e4b03ea0c0046a4b/amp

RamenCatholic, (edited ) to random

This is a YouTube short worth watching. I can't stop laughing. My cat is watching me with concern.

https://youtube.com/shorts/XXJnjSK0Q2c?si

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