RickiTarr,
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I think any time someone gives us unsolicited advice, we should get to ask them for money to fund it.

You'd look better if you wore makeup

Okay, you have to give me $500 to buy makeup.

You should talk to a therapist.

Cool, $300 a week, please!

kimlockhartga,
@kimlockhartga@beige.party avatar

@RickiTarr "Go get a better education for a better-paying job" is my all-time favorite. Also, those of us with chronic illnesses have to suffer unsolicited advice all the time and we should get paid for that, too.

LadyDragonfly,

@RickiTarr Whenever I get a random thirsty dude in my DMs on Facebook Messenger I send them back a request for money. $50/convo dude. If you're gonna treat my social media like an onlyfans account, the least I can do is monetize it.

phrees,

@RickiTarr You could be on to something.

Roses are red.
Violets are blue.
This family therapy
giftcard's for you.

MaryAustinBooks,
@MaryAustinBooks@mstdn.social avatar

@RickiTarr
Probably the most egregious example is Elon Musk telling everybody to make more kids.

cpm,
@cpm@spore.social avatar

@RickiTarr
unsolicited advice is negative criticism.

The End
@bobjmsn

joannaholman,
@joannaholman@aus.social avatar

@RickiTarr @luciedigitalni especially when job hunting. People keep telling me I should be social worker or set up a company that helps people sort out estates. They say this like it’s the most obvious perfect suggestion ever I’d be stupid not to take. Those would require additional expensive degrees, professional memberships and liability insurance

RickiTarr,
@RickiTarr@beige.party avatar

@joannaholman @luciedigitalni But that's only 3 things lol, yeah, everything is easier said than done

adelinej, (edited )
@adelinej@thecanadian.social avatar

@RickiTarr Nice, some money to pay this therapist! lol

IntentionallyBLANK,

@RickiTarr
I've had pretty good luck with Sondermind, but I've also been enjoying the fact my deductibles have been maxed as a result of cancer. No copays til' next year. Then it all gets painful again. So it goes. I do like Sondermind, though. Therapy is absurdly expensive and finding one that is really there to help patients and not chat about their own mental health struggles is weirdly difficult. And yet, damn near everyone needs therapy, if we're honest.

RickiTarr,
@RickiTarr@beige.party avatar

@IntentionallyBLANK Isn't it sad we get excited when those deductibles get maxed

aronow,
@aronow@hachyderm.io avatar

@RickiTarr @ics I love this so much - implementing starting today 😂

QuietLurker,
@QuietLurker@mastodon.social avatar

@RickiTarr As someone with a family member who likes to buy me “gifts” to “improve” things about myself unsolicited, I still don’t want it. Backhanded gifts are still insults.

RickiTarr,
@RickiTarr@beige.party avatar

@QuietLurker The fucking worst!

justafrog,
@justafrog@mstdn.social avatar

@RickiTarr Getting a therapist on the open market is such a luxury.

It shouldn't be like that, but it truly is.

RickiTarr,
@RickiTarr@beige.party avatar

@justafrog Especially when you really need to try a couple out to find a match, before you can even dig in, and if you're in a rural area, then damn

justafrog,
@justafrog@mstdn.social avatar

@RickiTarr Yeah, just drop a few thousand on finding the right therapist while you're barely holding things together.

I'm sure mental health is never correlated with low income.

smh It's like asking someone with a broken leg to take the stairs.

ShutterbugDoug,

@RickiTarr "The high cost of (handing out) free advice" 😉😄

CosmicTrigger,

@RickiTarr Or my personal fave:

"Love it or leave it!!"

"Cool. Got a couple million bucks cuz I'm gonna need that before any Scandinavian country is gonna let me move there."

dangrsmind,
@dangrsmind@sfba.social avatar

@RickiTarr I actually have done this many times. A variant, ask a person who wants you to do free work where to send your invoice.

mentallyalex,
@mentallyalex@beige.party avatar

@RickiTarr alternatively, can we advice givers establish a tip jar?

Not the unsolicited, but the solicited? :blobcatgiggle:

"Alex you wouldn't believe this..."
slides jar across the table

HumToTable,
@HumToTable@sfba.social avatar

@RickiTarr Gonna go bankrupt. I love giving unsolicited advice. It's the polite form of nagging. 😁

RickiTarr,
@RickiTarr@beige.party avatar

@HumToTable OH NO, you have to say it then run away

RacerX,
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@HumToTable @RickiTarr my GF refers to this as being aggressively helpful. Boy oh boy, is she helpful!

RolloTreadway,
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RickiTarr,
@RickiTarr@beige.party avatar

@RolloTreadway You should choose to be depressed, it's cheaper to stay in bed watching reruns of The Office LOL. People are ridiculous, how have they gone through life and not dealt with depression?

MichaelPorter,
@MichaelPorter@ottawa.place avatar

@RickiTarr @RolloTreadway Having done so, though, some recent advice to a couple of people close to me has been “Try therapy…”

…They’re close enough that I actually followed that up with, “I’ll pay for it.” So I guess I’m in line with your philosophy 👍

kimlockhartga,
@kimlockhartga@beige.party avatar

@MichaelPorter @RickiTarr @RolloTreadway This is one of the kindest gifts I've heard of.

MichaelPorter,
@MichaelPorter@ottawa.place avatar

@kimlockhartga @RickiTarr @RolloTreadway Just so you don’t think too much of me, these folks are family…
Anyway. I really wish that mental healthcare was treated like other healthcare - in Canada, that is… A civilized society shouldn’t let finances be someone’s downfall.

RickiTarr,
@RickiTarr@beige.party avatar
ecsd,

@RickiTarr

That would mean "go f--- yourself" is a freebie.

autolycos,
@autolycos@med-mastodon.com avatar

@RickiTarr that only covers a half hour if your therapist is a psychiatrist

RickiTarr,
@RickiTarr@beige.party avatar

@autolycos You're gonna have to ask for a lot more then!

ChristineMalec,

@RickiTarr How about when someone tells me they're going to pray for me? Can I demand a fee for being their object?

ChickenPwny,

@RickiTarr its called a go fund me, call it ricki makeup fund lol

RickiTarr,
@RickiTarr@beige.party avatar

@ChickenPwny I would only play with it, as dress up, it would really be a waste

ChickenPwny,

@RickiTarr you should see the stuff people make go fund me for lol

slab_bulkhead,
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Seilenos,
@Seilenos@queerspirituality.social avatar

@RickiTarr Well, the σοκολατα bars that I brought back from Greece for my co-workers were a big hit. They vacuumed them up in a couple of hours. 😋 🇬🇷❤️

Fragarach,
@Fragarach@mas.to avatar

@RickiTarr
MYOB 😏

glasspusher,
@glasspusher@beige.party avatar

@RickiTarr you should take my money

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