@mepurfield@kolektiva.social
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

mepurfield

@mepurfield@kolektiva.social

This profile is from a federated server and may be incomplete. Browse more on the original instance.

Uair, to actuallyautistic
@Uair@autistics.life avatar
mepurfield,
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

@Uair @actuallyautistic

😂 no. A great character but I don’t see it. Tarantino? Yeah he could be.

mepurfield, to ADHD
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

Question for #adhd tribe.

My mother theorized that my brother was so abusive to me my whole life was because he had adhd, never knew what to do with his energy.

I thought bullshit. Her comment is from ignorance of the condition. From reading #actuallyautistic posts here who also have adhd, I never read that kind of reaction.

I guess I don’t believe it the same way autistics are abusive because they are autistic.

But if I’m wrong, please let me know

NickEast, to Writers
@NickEast@geekdom.social avatar
mepurfield,
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

@NickEast @writers @writingcommunity @writing @humour

Acceptance is all about taste and what they had before

JeremyMallin, to actuallyautistic
@JeremyMallin@autistics.life avatar

"Children who are autistic may toe walk when they're young…"

Um. I still do that. Children of ALL ages? 🤔😆

Also… why the heck doesn't everyone? It's better that way.

#ActuallyAutistc
@actuallyautistic

"Um"—Nathan Fillion in Firefly, gesturing GIF

mepurfield,
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

@JeremyMallin @actuallyautistic

In my case I was beaten up a lot for it by neighborhood kids so I guess I stopped because of social ABA.

stevenray, to music
@stevenray@sfba.social avatar

We’ve had two copies of this book forever. Both autographed. We met Lydon on his little book tour, which for an ex-Sex Pistol felt steeped in cognitive dissonance. Shook his hand, had a short convo. The title of the book has always been disturbing for me. Never read the book, actually. Maybe this year. #music #punk #autobiography

mepurfield,
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

@stevenray

It’s a good memoir. But the new one Anger/Energy is massive.

CindyWeinstein, to random
@CindyWeinstein@zirk.us avatar

CDCSays "I'm rubber, you're glue, whatever you say bounces off of me and sticks to you."

mepurfield,
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

@CindyWeinstein

Odd. Also the Republican motto 🧐

mepurfield, to ethelcain
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

If you’re going broke then you’re doing it wrong. Most likely you’re trying to act like . We all know how good they’re doing 🙄

ashleyspencer, to random
@ashleyspencer@autistics.life avatar

Still fighting Affirm on the Upright Cane order.

At this point, it's a morality issue and fighting for justice.

BBB Scam search pulled up over 100 scam complaints for Upright Cane.

The return address on the shipping label pulled up 198 different scams using the address.

Affirm said send the cane back and store will refund, but now I have lots of proof the company isn't real.

They've assigned my dispute critical status. If they don't do anything, next step is emailing their chief legal.

mepurfield,
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

@ashleyspencer

Ugh disgusting. Hope they burn

mepurfield, to random
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

I really don’t think I’m making a difference at all. Not compared to others. I know I shouldn’t do that. I tripped and fell into a hole. But it’s so hard to be seen. Invisibility has always been my problem. Or ignored. 😒

mepurfield, to random
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

So depressed.

Spent hours scouring the internet trying to find a group of working writers on the internet to check to be a part of.

NOTHING is out there.

Well, maybe FB. But I'm not on FB.

So yeah. Depressing. And frustrating 😞

KitMuse, to bookstodon
@KitMuse@eponaauthor.social avatar

What apps/websites/etc. does everyone use to track short story submissions? I used to use a spreadsheet, but suspect there may be better tools out there?

Thanks!

@bookstodon

mepurfield,
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

@KitMuse @bookstodon

Use Submitable. Allows you to log external submissions too

technotramp, to random
@technotramp@mastodon.social avatar

Friends, I'm asking for your help:

1.) My mastodon.social account is hidden and I don't know why?
2.) My hashtags are not working and I don't know why?
3.) No one talks to me on staff@mastodon.social.

Is there a mastodon.social user who can talk to me about this? I understand that something is probably wrong, but I don't know what. This account is to be used to reach out to the community about new music that will be appearing on IPFS. I do not share any objectionable content. Thank you all!

mepurfield,
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

@technotramp

Someone from that server followed me today but I can’t follow him back due to a server error on their end.

Combined with your problem there may be a gremlin running around in there. I assume it will resolve soon

mepurfield, to writing
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

With my absurd (MEP) personality in 2024, I want to experiment with meta fiction, bio fiction, satire, and fairy tale.

You got any 2024 #writing plans?

#indie

sebwhatever, to actuallyautistic
@sebwhatever@mastodon.social avatar

@actuallyautistic #actuallyautistic

I'm raging internally. Texting with one of my brothers and while i'm practically pleading for him to see the pain i've shouldered for ten years. He keeps making excuses and empty platitudes and victim-blaming.

mepurfield,
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

@sebwhatever @actuallyautistic

Cut him off. Did the same with my brother and felt better.

When you feel mentally stronger, you can venture to see him at family gatherings.

Life’s too short.

mepurfield, to writing
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

Bluesky sent me an invite code.

Is this something I should pursue?

#actuallyautistic #writing

dramypsyd, to actuallyautistic
@dramypsyd@ohai.social avatar

Any books on autism by autistic authors with higher support needs? Or blogs? We tend to center lower support needs voices and I want to make a point of using my position to elevate those who don’t get heard as much as I do 💜

@actuallyautistic #ActuallyAutistic

mepurfield,
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

@dramypsyd @actuallyautistic

I haven’t read it yet but have seen him in conferences and Ted talk, if this is what you mean

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07SMT6DHX/

KitMuse, to bookstodon
@KitMuse@eponaauthor.social avatar

Fun question for #AuthorsofMastodon

If I've written a novella set a "high school" level academy, but the character is older than her classmates due to health issues keeping her out of school (so she's 17 and her classmates are 14/15)

Is this still #YA or is it #NewAdult

@bookstodon #bookstodon

mepurfield,
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

@KitMuse @bookstodon

I think it all depends on your content.

I would say YA but if it reads like Less Than Zero, I would say not.

I’m not much of a believer in New Adult as a genre. It’s all contemporary literature to me 😊

mepurfield, to scifi
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

5 NEW stories up for Patrons!

4 new #scifi and one Tenebrous Chronicles.

Check out the details here!

https://www.patreon.com/posts/new-stories-94772243

Not a part of my #patreon?

So easy and affordable to join and be a part of my mission to bring #neurodiverse #fiction to the world.

#actuallyautistic #autistic

haui, to actuallyautistic

Being @actuallyautistic and #gifted for me means I often get told the following, initially:

„No! You‘re wrong! What a shit take! You have no idea what you‘re talking about! Stop the drugs, man!“ and the like.

After some discussion, people say:

„I have not thought of it this way. I got you wrong. We should actually consider doing it your way. You seem to have deeper insight than the average person.“

This often makes me question my place in this world. Anyone else? #actuallyautistic

mepurfield,
@mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

@haui @actuallyautistic

I never had that kind of reaction. It’s either people accept it and understand me or shrug it off and ignore me.

ryanhoulihan, to random
@ryanhoulihan@mastodon.social avatar

deleted_by_author

  • Loading...
  • mepurfield,
    @mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

    @ryanhoulihan

    He was my state’s governor for a few terms. He would be better than trump but might hurt social services like he did for NJ.

    mepurfield, to actuallyautistic
    @mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

    I guess NTs that mimic #auctuallyautistic traits like stimming also go to #blacklivesmatter events in blackface. 🤔

    @actuallyautistic

    mepurfield,
    @mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

    @sal @actuallyautistic yes and or do it because they think it will help them understand or make autistic feel accepted

    mepurfield, to random
    @mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

    So sick of people expecting me to apologize for my neurology and they never have to apologize to me for ableism and mockery.

    So sick of not being accepted and they don’t have to accept me.

    This year is my year. With my family of choice.

    #actuallyautistic

    mepurfield, to random
    @mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

    My love for goes so deep he was our wedding song 20 years ago 😊

    https://youtu.be/hrLXSf84-YQ?si=BFuy8kny0iJjvJzr

    mepurfield, to writing
    @mepurfield@kolektiva.social avatar

    “Finished that short novel on Wednesday this week at 30,000 words. Why I didn’t send out a letter last week. With my desire to finish the book and a few home life deadlines, I didn’t have the time to reach out to you all.”

    https://www.patreon.com/posts/93055357?utm_campaign=postshare_creator

  • All
  • Subscribed
  • Moderated
  • Favorites
  • megavids
  • thenastyranch
  • rosin
  • GTA5RPClips
  • osvaldo12
  • love
  • Youngstown
  • slotface
  • khanakhh
  • everett
  • kavyap
  • mdbf
  • DreamBathrooms
  • ngwrru68w68
  • provamag3
  • magazineikmin
  • InstantRegret
  • normalnudes
  • tacticalgear
  • cubers
  • ethstaker
  • modclub
  • cisconetworking
  • Durango
  • anitta
  • Leos
  • tester
  • JUstTest
  • All magazines