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RoseRaven

@RoseRaven@eldritch.cafe

I'm a mom in her 40s with teen kids.

🏳️‍⚧️ HRT: 12/27/21

Things I'm really into:
BG3
FFXIV or GW2
Killsixbilliondemons.com
girlgeniusonline.com
gunnerkrigg.com
namesakecomic.com
MURDERBOT
Gideon the 9nth

Necromancers.
Fur-babies

If I don't follow you back its likely because I'm already overwhelmed with who I follow. If we interact a bunch and I'm not following you... remind me and I'll follow you.

Pratchett informed more of my morality than probably any other source.

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Important Question: Why is this image so overtly sexual?

RoseRaven,
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@RickiTarr

Oh all this time I thought it was "ET phone home" and now I see it was "ET bone him".

RoseRaven, to random
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My short stint in management has made me a lot more critical of bad management.

If everything is a dumpster fire all the time for all employees? Bad management.

No clear employee development path and needed skills?
Bad Management.

Can't accurately describe time and effort needed for your people to accomplish a task without overtime?
Bad Management.

Yeah sure if you are doing something complicated or new or scary .... but that usually isn't the case.

Management usually is just too focused trying to please upwards and not trying to actually do a good job.

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RoseRaven, to random
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Sometimes you just need to play Cascada songs on repeat.

RoseRaven, to random
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So...

When the vampire lords rose, first they fought humans and then they fought themselves.

In the end eight houses of eight vampires were all that remained. This was still more than enough to terrify the world.

So humans built all glass houses so that the sunlight would always be present. And all their dishes and dining utensils were made from wood and garlic and silver.

Eventually the vampires died out and the practice ended. But occasionally you can still find the silver lining in soft ware in windowed sixty four bites architecture.

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Sometimes I feel like the people who maintain google chat actively want me to stop using it

RoseRaven, to random
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How does anyone like Gale? How? God he's the worst.

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I wish makeouts were more of a thing in my relationship.

Wife has issues with touch and repetitive touch outside of very very very narrow boundaries. (My stims drive her bonkers).

But she's my soul and we've got 18 years of very delightful marital companionship and learning how to respect eachother's boundaries.

I do miss making out though when I keep seeing all these young people being like "I SHALL KISS THE WORLD WITH TONGUE"

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"Weep" cries the corvid
"Weep for a life gone morbid"
"Weep for a soul sold to stress"

"Fuck you" brays the donkey
"Emotions aren't the boss of me"
"Take your sad to the church if you must confess"

"Weep" cries the dark crow
"Weep for a life you wont know"
"Weep for a girl who never will and never was"

"Fuck you" brays the bitch ass
"If regret is your dish I'll pass"
"Now is the only real, everything else is fuzz"

"Weep" cries the raven
"Weep like an anxiety maven"
"Weep for you will always be clocked"

"Fuck you! Fuck you! Fuck you!" a mule screams
"Other people are just dreams"
"My life is my own, my looks mine alone, and that dress I wore fucking rocked."

"Dear goddess won't you please all just shut the fuck up"
Grumbled the sleepy tired ugly pup

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Abigail Thorn is a bit of a revelation

RoseRaven, to random
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UK peeps... did sunak get elected previously? Or was he like a vp stand-in when other PM stepped down? Unsure how your system works

RoseRaven, to random
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So.

A great deal of my life I would hear "the problem with families is dad's not being present". Like single mom or lesbian mom problems were simply lack of a man.

I wonder if that belief was a "how will your kids learn patriarchy if they don't have a parent steeped in supporting it?"

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Was thinking this morning about what @RickiTarr posted regarding conservative aspects being cult like.

Having come out of a very cult like evangelical church nearly a decade prior to any political standing changes in my life it is ... odd in a discordant resonance way how similar those situations are.

When I came out as trans the wall that popped up between me and any conservative acquaintances was nearly as sharp as the wall between me and those who stayed in the church I left.

I no longer had the same steady thrumbeat of propaganda. I no longer accepted the "wise leadership". And those things were everything for both situations.

I don't remember anyone telling me to judge things based on any consistent facts only on how things matched the sermons or political stances of public leaders.

This post isn't a revelation or clear point just me publicly sharing my thoughts as I chew on this framework and think about the implications.

I remember regularly being told to make sure I don't get swept up by the arguments of "bad" but there was a big disconnect between the Bible as read and the stances.

Something I never questioned because everyone I knew who was "good" didn't question it.

And questions were viewed as bad. As doubting. And doubt was a very bad. Never doubt leadership. Leadership only has your best interests at heart. We are all a family. A family doesn't share problems outside of family. Fights are private. Smiles are public.

RoseRaven,
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@RickiTarr I absolutely did.

My wife and friends and kids have been amazing. And while I wish I didn't have the experience it does come in handy occasionally when trying to find common ground with people and explain where I'm at.

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Sometimes I think it might be better not to be screened for cancer or whatever.

Cus if I get a colonoscopy and it says you have cancer...then I'd have to spend the next 10 years fighting that shit.

But If I didn't then I'd have like 5 years of blissful ignorance.

I'm sure that me sitting here waiting for the appointment psyching myself up to guzzle more of the horrible clean you out liquid and having not had food since 8pm Monday has zero impact on my thoughts

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Kid is currently going through https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diabetic_ketoacidosis

Today is less than optimal

RoseRaven, to random
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The utter terror of thinking about possibly looking for a new job.

RoseRaven, to random
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Where Aerith your trans friend may be in the Cloud you should always remember TIFA.

Trans
Including
Feminism
Always


Why yes. I am proud of myself for that.

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Everything I know about database design comes from an SQL class I took in a tech college in 1999. I'm sure it is up todate and that I'll do fine.

RoseRaven, to random
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Trying to emotion correctly this morning.

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Have started today with a low grade cough that I can't shake.

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Don't feel girly today.

Do feel like me.

Am absolutely in love with my elden ring muscle girl. First time in months I've actually wanted to work out.

No one is at work today because a combination of:

"Snow was enough reason to use PTO"
"Holidays aren't over yet still using PTO"
"Only work Fridays every other Friday"
"Retiree that only comes in on tuesdays for 4 hours"

===========================

I"M GOING TO DIE I HAVE PROVED SOMEONE WRONG AND THEY AREN"T HERE FOR ME TO SHOW THEM......

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I'm starting to appreciate this cardassian tailor after he helped detangle the whole cardassian orphan thing.

RoseRaven,
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Ds9 is a lot easier to watch if I'm doing something else.

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