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RoseRaven

@RoseRaven@eldritch.cafe

I'm a mom in her 40s with teen kids.

🏳️‍⚧️ HRT: 12/27/21

Things I'm really into:
BG3
FFXIV or GW2
Killsixbilliondemons.com
girlgeniusonline.com
gunnerkrigg.com
namesakecomic.com
MURDERBOT
Gideon the 9nth

Necromancers.
Fur-babies

If I don't follow you back its likely because I'm already overwhelmed with who I follow. If we interact a bunch and I'm not following you... remind me and I'll follow you.

Pratchett informed more of my morality than probably any other source.

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UK peeps... did sunak get elected previously? Or was he like a vp stand-in when other PM stepped down? Unsure how your system works

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Kid is currently going through https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diabetic_ketoacidosis

Today is less than optimal

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Sometimes I think it might be better not to be screened for cancer or whatever.

Cus if I get a colonoscopy and it says you have cancer...then I'd have to spend the next 10 years fighting that shit.

But If I didn't then I'd have like 5 years of blissful ignorance.

I'm sure that me sitting here waiting for the appointment psyching myself up to guzzle more of the horrible clean you out liquid and having not had food since 8pm Monday has zero impact on my thoughts

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Anyone have any suggestions for a decent "NOT GMAIL" email provider?

I'm wanting something I can trust to exist a long time from now and to avoid the ... whatever the fuck is wrong with google.

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Please rate Rose in the following categories using the answers provided:

Rose's communication skills:

  1. barely acceptable
  2. utterly trash

Rose's engineering skills:

  1. barely acceptable
  2. utterly trash

Rose's personality:

  1. barely acceptable
  2. utterly trash

Rose as a person:

  1. barely acceptable
  2. utterly trash
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I'm starting to appreciate this cardassian tailor after he helped detangle the whole cardassian orphan thing.

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Was thinking this morning about what @RickiTarr posted regarding conservative aspects being cult like.

Having come out of a very cult like evangelical church nearly a decade prior to any political standing changes in my life it is ... odd in a discordant resonance way how similar those situations are.

When I came out as trans the wall that popped up between me and any conservative acquaintances was nearly as sharp as the wall between me and those who stayed in the church I left.

I no longer had the same steady thrumbeat of propaganda. I no longer accepted the "wise leadership". And those things were everything for both situations.

I don't remember anyone telling me to judge things based on any consistent facts only on how things matched the sermons or political stances of public leaders.

This post isn't a revelation or clear point just me publicly sharing my thoughts as I chew on this framework and think about the implications.

I remember regularly being told to make sure I don't get swept up by the arguments of "bad" but there was a big disconnect between the Bible as read and the stances.

Something I never questioned because everyone I knew who was "good" didn't question it.

And questions were viewed as bad. As doubting. And doubt was a very bad. Never doubt leadership. Leadership only has your best interests at heart. We are all a family. A family doesn't share problems outside of family. Fights are private. Smiles are public.

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So.

A great deal of my life I would hear "the problem with families is dad's not being present". Like single mom or lesbian mom problems were simply lack of a man.

I wonder if that belief was a "how will your kids learn patriarchy if they don't have a parent steeped in supporting it?"

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Im a broken being trying to be human and trying to be a woman and trying to be a mom and trying to be a wife and failing at all of that

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Where Aerith your trans friend may be in the Cloud you should always remember TIFA.

Trans
Including
Feminism
Always


Why yes. I am proud of myself for that.

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Abigail Thorn is a bit of a revelation

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The utter terror of thinking about possibly looking for a new job.

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Everything I know about database design comes from an SQL class I took in a tech college in 1999. I'm sure it is up todate and that I'll do fine.

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Have started today with a low grade cough that I can't shake.

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I wish makeouts were more of a thing in my relationship.

Wife has issues with touch and repetitive touch outside of very very very narrow boundaries. (My stims drive her bonkers).

But she's my soul and we've got 18 years of very delightful marital companionship and learning how to respect eachother's boundaries.

I do miss making out though when I keep seeing all these young people being like "I SHALL KISS THE WORLD WITH TONGUE"

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Don't feel girly today.

Do feel like me.

Am absolutely in love with my elden ring muscle girl. First time in months I've actually wanted to work out.

No one is at work today because a combination of:

"Snow was enough reason to use PTO"
"Holidays aren't over yet still using PTO"
"Only work Fridays every other Friday"
"Retiree that only comes in on tuesdays for 4 hours"

===========================

I"M GOING TO DIE I HAVE PROVED SOMEONE WRONG AND THEY AREN"T HERE FOR ME TO SHOW THEM......

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Side thought not related to my current attempts to familiarize myself with new ide's.

@rooster is so great for showing me that I too have the potential to be a hot girl who doesn't know how hot she is and needs a ken to take off her glasses and tell her that she's pretty now.

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@Gwynnever

I think you are Jenny's headmate. If not please forgive me messaging the wrong person.

Are Dutch Bro's anygood as a coffee place? The kids have asked me to boycott starbucks but I desperately need to plan out coffee for my next trip.

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How does anyone like Gale? How? God he's the worst.

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Sometimes I feel like the people who maintain google chat actively want me to stop using it

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So...

When the vampire lords rose, first they fought humans and then they fought themselves.

In the end eight houses of eight vampires were all that remained. This was still more than enough to terrify the world.

So humans built all glass houses so that the sunlight would always be present. And all their dishes and dining utensils were made from wood and garlic and silver.

Eventually the vampires died out and the practice ended. But occasionally you can still find the silver lining in soft ware in windowed sixty four bites architecture.

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If something matches well to something else but the relationship is exponential.... is it still called correlation?

Like in the attached picture there is a clearly defined relationship between M and K but it isn't linear.

@e_er1n because I just like pinging her.

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Trying to emotion correctly this morning.

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