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jonobie

@jonobie@social.coop

One masters in Counseling and another in CS. I love talking #Technology and #MentalHealth.

Tech geek and advocate of minorities in tech. Previously a longtime Microsoftie. Coach and mentor at SelfWitte, DefCon SOC Goon, and #BurningMan regional Ranger at Critical Northwest. Lives near #Seattle in the lovely PNW. #Polyamorous (#polyamory)

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I have a scab on my elbow because I โ€ฆ leaned too hard or long on it, and my skin just decided to give up in that spot?

Middle aged bodies are weird and fragile in more ways than I expected.

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So this is how my morning went, not sad about it at all...

Also working on take 3 to get decent steel cut oats for breakfast. I feel like this is bizarrely challenging - the past two days they've stuck to the pan and didn't seem like they had enough water. Today I partially covered them and they didn't stick, but were more chewy than I liked Anyone have a favorite method of preparing steel cut oats?

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The #seattle monorail is such a bizarre thing. Basically just a tiny little connector between two parts of the city. But super useful if youโ€™re going between them!

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I used to be thrilled every time #AffinityDesigner launched and was like "Do you want to install the update"? Yes! Free! Awesome! Works better!

...Now that they're owned by Canva, I have this fear that every update might be The One that starts the enshittification.

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So far the winning feature of Linux Mint appears to be the extension "Cinnamon Dynamic Wallpaper". ๐Ÿคฃ I mean, c'mon, isn't this cool?

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Installed Linux Mint on a Virtual Box to start playing with it as a possible home OS in the future. So far, so good, although I haven't done much beyond adding some basic stuff. The fonts and graphics look a wee bit fuzzy, which I'm suspecting is the fault of Virtual Box (or the interaction) instead of Cinnamon, but we'll see how that wears over time.

Pondering whether I want to do the GNOME integration with Google or if that just means I'm going backwards on my de-Googling progress. Hm.

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The #WNBA is fascinating how many things are for the โ€œfemale gazeโ€. The dancers are fully clothed. The halftime show is a BUFF male gymnast with a PUPPY as part of his act. Lol.

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versus . I think this is my first professional basketball game! Pretty decent seats!

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Major pet peeve: Labyrinths ARE NOT mazes. They are different things. One has a non-branching path that leads to the center. The other does not.

Kills me that Discovery got this wrong in the otherwise amazing space library episode.

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More boggling at the #NCE.

One of the sample tests I just took was like "which of these is a defense mechanism" [a psychoanalytic thing]. I answered and got it wrong.

So I read my #Obsidian writeup about it to see why I missed it. It wasn't there. ...Huh, did I just forget to add it?

Turns out stuff online sometimes shows as few as 5 defense mechanisms or as many as 32. Which one is the canonical list? Who knows.

THIS IS RIDICULOUS.

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I've had very few teachers in my life that I felt moved to write thank you notes to.

... I'm currently writing basically everyone in the Saybrook counseling department and a fair number of the adjuncts too.

Just to say, yanno, thanks for the minor act of helping me change my life.

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Thoughts as I'm attempting to memorize the two types of interval schedules and the two types of ratio schedules for reinforcements.

  1. I wonder if the NCE plans to do ANY of the work that the social work test did, in showing that it's terribly racially biased. (https://www.psychotherapynotes.com/social-work-exam-data-shows-major-racial-disparities/)

  2. I'm pretty damn sure that other than the notion of "reinforcing a behavior consistently helps form it and sporadically helps lock it in," I will NEVER use any of these words in my actual work.

#counseling

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Iโ€™ve been using reusable period options since I was 24. Iโ€™ve used sea sponges, the Keeper cup, Glad Rags, New Moon Pads, and a stay-at-home momโ€™s variety of cloth pads. I was so freaking excited to see period underwear make it into a Wirecutter review - feels big time! And, I gotta say, of things Iโ€™ve tried, the Goat Union Overnight underwear Wirecutter recommended is by far the most secure thing Iโ€™ve worn. I wore it through โ€œred Niagaraโ€ today and nary a leak.

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Iโ€™m a bit stressed putting together my new Kromanski; it has text about voided warranty if the front and back are flipped. It doesnโ€™t have nearly as clear instructions as the SampleIt did. Also, my right side heddle blocksโ€™ little wooden nubs is not really going in. :-(

Can anyone tell if thereโ€™s anything obviously wrong so far? Also, on the Kromskis, is the logo generally on the front side or the back side? That might help me orient a bit.

@weaving #weaving

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Apparently in the question of โ€œam I having my period todayโ€ does not have a deterministic answer. Sweet. ๐Ÿ™„

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Wowza. Booking a Lyft right now to downtown shows $75. Yellow Cab App shows $30-40. Am gonna give the new app a whirl and cross my fingers that the fare isn't ridiculous with a meter. (One thing I don't love about cabs.)

Last time I took a cab from the airport, it was fully $20 less than the same trip had been a week earlier with Lyft. The rideshare apps are seeming like no longer such a good deal...

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Oh, this is fun. In organizing my files, I found a logo I created FIFTEEN years ago - my very first foray into vector art. I had no idea what I was doing, so it was sort of half vector and half... not. I'd literally painted in fill where printing hadn't worked the way I expected. I spent a bit cleaning up lines to make it more reusable. Still might play with the colors some, but it's fun to see the before (left) and after (right). I made the card's arms more buff. :)

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Looking at my cart at The Woolery, and there is basically endless squeeing.

(The cart is full of Kromski 32" loom and loom accessories. SQUEEEEEEEEEE MOAR #weaving here I come.)

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So that happened todayโ€ฆ MA of Counseling complete! <level up sound>

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I feel like my nose is breaking some law of physics. The amount of snot coming out seems to be far in excess of what Iโ€™ve taken in.

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People who think those who are cold can always โ€œput on another layerโ€ have clearly never worn upwards of 5 layers at once and then tried to add yet another on top of that. ๐Ÿฅถ๐Ÿฅถ๐Ÿฅถ

Brought to you by a frozen human who is currently wearing all of her layers plus a borrowed layer and feels like a sausage.

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My father was a professor at Kent State; I grew up hearing about the National Guard shooting. With kid logic, I thought one part of the campus was "unsafe", before later realizing it happened before I was born. (Ancient history!) I later realized it was a mere six years prior, so far closer in their memory than, say, 9/11/01 is in mine now.

For years, I could locate where I was to non-Ohioians by saying "Kent State". That faded a few years ago, but I feel like I'm hearing it come up more now.

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Pondering as I read the latest compendium from the Society of Psychotherapy Research (best bang-for-buck society Iโ€™m in)โ€ฆ I often summarize and capture articles in my #Obsidian #personalKnowledgeManagement system. But rarely go through and try to re-validate and remove old or incorrect stuff. Itโ€™s hard to do that with over a thousand topics and years of notes. How do others manage this side of #PKM ?

Thereโ€™s a metaphor in here about how our brains work, I think.

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A scientist has twelve identical flasks of bacteria, running for 70,000 generations (years!) to investigate the role of chance over time. A fascinating article about the divergent flask and what that means:

https://behavioralscientist.org/is-it-all-a-fluke-lessons-from-playing-god-in-the-long-term-evolution-experiment/

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