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toridas_

@toridas_@wandering.shop

Making a history for a post-historical self.

Profile image: selfie of a brown 20-something femme with short black hair and dark eyes, wearing a green 'nightie' (in the local parlance) and holding the Rosebud Tarot by Diana Rose Harper and Amanda Lee Stilwell, against a peach pink and brown background, smiling at the camera.

Header image: closeup of a cluster of curry tree buds blooming into little star-like white flowers, against a backdrop of young warm-toned green curry leaves.

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18+ geraineon, to magASEAN
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Somehow can't upload photo but dinner is leftovers from lunch topped up with more fresh cooked food, plus a steamed fish this time, and lotus root soup, and quick pickled cucumbers and carrots

I am very well fed and stuffed... (This is the end of visitation here! But my mother will be here to play mahjong so I guess it's time for me to read Tai Sui)

#MakanApaToday #Food

RE: https://blahaj.zone/notes/9pj8fw56fubfpeyp

toridas_,
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@geraineon I know I'd have died from secondhand embarrassment if I'd been in such a family gathering

toridas_,
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@geraineon cheating, probably

skinnylatte, to food
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Tony from JohorKaki has a few good recent posts exploring Bangladeshi food. He has some recs for Teochew restaurants in Johor where they cook hilsa, a fish beloved by Bengalis, asam pedas style.

Stuff like this is basically all of my food cultures and influences in one place (Johor, where my family is from) and one ingredient (hilsa, which I learned to love in my time in west and east Bengal)

https://johorkaki.blogspot.com/2023/10/hilsa-illish-national-fish-of-bangladesh.html

#Food #TootSea #Malaysia #Johor

toridas_,
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@skinnylatte ilish/hilsa is EVERYTHING to Bengalis. Even if prices reach 3000 INR per kilo in hilsa season, everyone will absolutely buy it.

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@skinnylatte that is indeed panic-inducing

toridas_, to random
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I, uh,

  • bought a bicycle (not an ebike, those are hella expensive here) instead of a fossil fuelled bike
  • refused plastic bin liners although my biological family love them because it's "efficient"
  • reuse any plastics safe and viable for reuse
  • insist on planting and propagating native or naturalised plant species instead of following corpo social media fads with houseplants that drive a horticultural industry big on fossil fuel
  • hate and avoid wasting water

https://mastodon.social/@sundogplanets/111836609415029818

toridas_, to random
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The financial condition is dire right now. The family I'm dependent on for my finances are threatening to stop paying me the bare minimum they give me (I'm rightfully owed much more than that according to law!) And I'm unemployed, and chronic illness is fucking expensive. I wish I knew better ways of managing this stress other than wanting to sit down and cry.

Rasta, to ilaughed

Remember that night? you would if you stayed up all night.. and then took all day to edit.. Here's overnight (enhanced timelapse) of a full clear sky.

#Stars #NightPhotography #Night #Video

The full sky overnight with stars and moving objects, above the shoreline where bright lights appear below. Everything in the sky rotates right until daylight

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@Rasta this reminds me of my favourite music mix of all time, "Quiet Night Quiet Stars" by Low Light Mixes. It gave me my love of stargazing and night photography.

toridas_,
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@Rasta clear nights, particularly summer nights, are a treasure in these light-polluted, garbage satellite-cramed times

irfan, to magASEAN

📍 Stesen Nasi Kerabu. I CAN NEVER HAVE ENOUGH OF THIS HEAVENLY FOOD!!!!!

toridas_,
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@irfan what's coconut nyior?

toridas_, to magASEAN
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Really enjoying cooking these days because, although I fail quite often, I'm learning steadily, too, and I like working with my hands, thinking practically and being mindful. It's oddly calming. I hadn't anticipated this, but learning to cook has been drawing out a lot of my inner demons and exorcising them.

And on days with Ws such as tonight, the effort seems especially worthwhile.

#MakanApaToday #HomeCooking

On a blue glass top table with peacock feather patterns in shades of blue, green, and purple: a steel platter of steamed rice with a generous helping of begun bhorta piled on top, with two pieces of fish fried red-brown next to the rice.

toridas_,
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@Deus yeah, it's starting to be that for me, too.

toridas_,
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@Deus 🙏🏽 I did think of making a dal but it got late and I was tired 😛

tess, to random
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PSA for visual artists:

Nightshade is out!
https://nightshade.cs.uchicago.edu/

Nightshade is an ML-poisoning algorithm that causes models trained with treated images to malfunction. Use in conjunction with Glaze to protect your work and give a big "fuck you" to the capitalists stealing your shit for their own profit.

#mastoart

toridas_,
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@tess is there a similar way of protecting writing from LLMs?

irfan, to magASEAN

Kubis/Kol Goreng is worth dying for… literally (it’s apparently carcinogenic). #MakanApaToday

toridas_,
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@irfan is it, really? Or is this another Sinophobic fad, like saying MSG is carcinogenic?

toridas_, to magASEAN
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I just spent more time with this photo and sharing it than I spent reading, heh.

But I'm doing it for the Aesthetic 🌹

Oh, and I make good chai, too, I guess.

#MakanApaToday

cydonian, to magASEAN
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Pongal/ Makara Sankranti greetings! #makanapatoday

toridas_,
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@cydonian Makar Sankranti greetings to you as well! The day will begin lengthening from Wednesday onwards and I'm so glad.

toridas_,
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@cydonian this suburb is quieter here in Bengal, but we've still got loudspeakers blasting Bhojpuri autotuned dance numbers and one or two Bollywood bangers. People are making puli pitha in nearly every household.

toridas_, to magASEAN
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Making tonight's dinner took inordinately long because frying the fish took ONE WHOLE HOUR. But it's quite simple fare. Erred on the side of caution with the salt, I think.

On the plus side, the tomato and orange chutney is close to running out, and today I bought fresh, perfectly ripe and red tomatoes, and big oranges. I'm hoping I can make a new bowl of chutney, but better this time, on BFF#1's birthday.

#MakanApaToday #HomeCooking

18+ AimeeMaroux, to antiquidons
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It's not only phalloi that are auspicious: vulvas are just as lucky and protect from evil. Between women, flashing of the vulva is depicted as light-hearted and funny, such as when Baubo flashes hers to Demeter to cheer her up. But Pliny the Elder writes that a woman can avert storm and hail by exposing her vulva towards Z̶e̶u̶s̶ the lightning.

🏛️ Relief of Baubo exposing her #vulva.

#FannyFriday @antiquidons @phistorians

toridas_,
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@Shanmonster @AimeeMaroux @antiquidons @phistorians clearly I'm not in luck because no woman has ever flashed her genitals at me

toridas_, to random
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Hey y'all, I'm trying to raise USD125 to settle some debts from back when I left my abusive biological family and moved to my new place last year, and the debts need clearing this month itself. I'm unemployed and chronically ill, I've got no other way to do it.

So 🥁 I'm offering tarot readings! ✨

If you've got a question, I'll answer it for $5 👍🏽 For every extra question, add $5.

We can talk here in DMs or on Signal, your choice. Comment below if you're interested ✌🏽

#PleaseBoost

toridas_, to magASEAN
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2024 is off to a good start 😌 Stupidly happy with two days of having made lunch on time, and eating it on time today, too.

#MakanApaToday

afif, to random
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toridas_,
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@afif oof, this looks amazing

toridas_, to random
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Yeah with COVID making headlines here in India now, I've started masking up as well.

toridas_,
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@Deus thank you, my current illness seems to be the same (I haven't tested, but I don't have any other symptoms).

But COVID does appear to be on the rise again, first in USA and then SE Asia, and now here in Kerala, Karnataka, and Bengal too. Better safe than sorry, I guess?

skinnylatte, (edited ) to random
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I don’t think the people who say ‘sunlight is the best disinfectant’ have ever done laundry before. Sometimes sunlight burns your shit to a crisp. Sometimes you have bedbugs in your mattress and no amount of sunlight will disinfect anything.

Yes, this is about substack. They are bedbugs

toridas_,
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@skinnylatte man I completely missed the point the first time didn't I 😝

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