rysiek,
@rysiek@mstdn.social avatar

Seriously though, fedi was built by furries, trans and queer folk, disabled neurodivergent people.

This is the reason the culture here is what it is. Why CWs are a thing. Why image descriptions are a thing. Why privacy matters here. Why moderation tools not only exist, but are usable — and used.

If you had joined and asked yourself "wow, how come this place is so chill and kinda… nice?" — that's thanks to all the nice people from communities some people call "weird".

So #KeepFediWeird.

rysiek, (edited )
@rysiek@mstdn.social avatar

Can't spell "fediverse" without "diverse", is all I'm saying.

#KeepFediWeird

Edit:

I posted this and the parent toot at the start of Nov'22 wave of new people and communities joining fedi, bringing their specific needs and expectations.

Fedi learned a lot about itself since then, including that it needs to dramatically improve on the #antiracism front.

We need to recognize that fedi failed #Black / #BIPOC folks, and do better.

Context:
https://hachyderm.io/@mekkaokereke/109456287145465168

#BlackMastodon #BlackFedi

UserUser,

@rysiek
Can't spell "Trump" without "rump"
Just saying.

Shibanarchiste,
@Shibanarchiste@piaille.fr avatar

@rysiek I'm a Xenogender and #FeelSafe here

#KeepFediWeird

ananas,
@ananas@mstdn.social avatar

#keepfediweird :blobfoxcomfysip:

graphite,

@rysiek I wonder if there's any straight cis non-furry neurotypical person on fedi, outside mastosoc

rysiek,
@rysiek@mstdn.social avatar

@graphite I guess technically I fit that bill. I did start off on mastosoc on this iteration of fedi, but moved away from it years and years ago.

kyhwana,
@kyhwana@furry.nz avatar

@rysiek nek minit, people adding furry instances and sex positive instances (see the buttplug.io one) to the TBS block list just because they're furry instances.. https://furry.engineer/@silvereagle/111061785659244565

rysiek,
@rysiek@mstdn.social avatar

@kyhwana no, they don't seem to be adding furry instances to TBS block list "just because they are furry instances."

I've been here long enough to see how BIPOC folks are treated by some around here. I mention that literally in the next toot in my thread.

I have no problem with BIPOC folks building safe spaces for themselves. The over-dramatic negative reactions to the fact these safe spaces by people who should understand the need for safe spaces flabbergast me, frankly. 🤷‍♀️

unicandun,

@rysiek cannot agree more!

OldAndCranky,
@OldAndCranky@sfba.social avatar

@rysiek Weird is my favorite flavor.

kkarhan,
@kkarhan@mstdn.social avatar

@rysiek Also because the :fediverse: embraces #FreeSpeech, but not #ConsequenceFreeSpeech...

OFC one can act like an asshole, but assholes get yeeted out of it as fast as any good club will...

Simple as that:
https://xkcd.com/1357/

Lane,
@Lane@dice.camp avatar

@rysiek
What he said.

jawarajabbi,
@jawarajabbi@mastodon.online avatar

@rysiek Hear, hear!

PixelRefresh,

@rysiek The humans many humans call "weird" are the type of humans I prefer to interact with.
I am more likely to find kindness and respect among these demographics. There has been a lot less pain since moving here from Twitter. This platform is also easier for me to connect to, even before considering relatively recent changes to Twitter APIs.

PsyChuan,

@rysiek don't forget black folk and other PoC. fediblock is an essential tool and we wouldn't be anywhere near as safe without the hard work of Marcia and Are0h.

rysiek,
@rysiek@mstdn.social avatar

@PsyChuan absolutely. Note the date of this toot. This was way before I became aware of the racism on fedi. I need to update that thread.

PsyChuan,

@rysiek oop! my bad

rysiek,
@rysiek@mstdn.social avatar

@PsyChuan no worries, it's a welcome nudge to get my shit together and update that thread

Ivy_gay,

@rysiek I'm a trans gal who just joined, and this is the first social media platform that didn't leave me feeling bad afterwards

The people and the vibes are impeccable #FediWeird

morri,
@morri@norden.social avatar

@rysiek except they were also white people which grew up in a white environment and therefore cause(d ) kak with black people.

rysiek,
@rysiek@mstdn.social avatar

@morri this is sadly very true. I posted this before #BlackMastodon really took off and before a lot of the genuinely un-excellent examples of how very white fedi can be really hit me.

I did think about editing this toot, but decided to leave it as is as an artifact of its time.

I've been trying my best to boost as many BIPOC voices as possible here ever since.

skymtf,

@rysiek there are few features I want like the ability to import instance block list and account migration

rysiek,
@rysiek@mstdn.social avatar

@skymtf totally. This is and always will be a work in progress.

trollcall,

@rysiek woo!! as an ADHD haver, lets #KeepFediWeird forever.

pettter,
@pettter@mastodon.acc.umu.se avatar

@rysiek As always, making things accessible doesn't just make it accessible for people who need accessibility, but also everyone else.

You may not have debilitating PTSD that gets triggered by various stories, images etc. but I betcha not getting them in your face all the time is working to lower your stress levels, etc.

rysiek,
@rysiek@mstdn.social avatar

@pettter the Curb-cut effect is what we're all benefiting from around here, yes.

pettter,
@pettter@mastodon.acc.umu.se avatar

@rysiek Ah! Didn't know it had an actual name :)

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