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npdemers

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Software developer, gay, atheist, humanist, feminist, geek. Love volleyball, sci-fi, photography, birbs.

Vancouver, BC, Canada

"Either we'll figure out the sea, or we'll keep finding beautiful places."

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Gotta get those worms, rain or shine -- Vancouver, June 2

#photography #raincouver #birds #AmericanRobin

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A handsome flicker digging for ants in the loose soil at the water's edge near the Plaza of Nations -- Vancouver, May 25

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Great Blue Heron stalking the low tide shallows -- Vancouver, May 22

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Big flaps -- Boundary Bay, May 17

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Surprise marmot -- Tsawwassen Beach Trail, May 11

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Mullet power, activate! -- Reifel Bird Sanctuary, May 2

npdemers, to vancouver
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What are these smol geese? They're called Cackling Geese, and will sometimes be found around flocks of Canada Geese. Apparently it's a fun challenge to look for them during bird counts. Though they have the same colours, they stand out by their size (not much bigger than a duck) and proportionately smaller neck and bill.

Also a lifer! About time, I've been hearing about them for a while -- Lost Lagoon, Stanley Park, April 21
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A Cackling Goose is standing on the edge of the water, in profile and facing camera left

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After literally years of hearing people banging on about the resident Bittern... we finally saw it! And not just a quick glimpse, but it was out hunting in the open! It is a gorgeous creature, with a heron's trademark killer glare, but build very differently, and with subtly beautiful markings -- ƛ̓éxətəm (Tlahutum) Regional Park, April 7
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An American Bittern surrounded by tall green grasses, giving itself a good scratching and ruffling its neck feathers
An American Bittern surrounded by tall green grasses, with its neck retracted
An American Bittern surrounded by tall green grasses, having caught some kind of long eel or fishy prey (along with a couple of big sticks)

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A Song Sparrow, doing what they do best -- Blackie Spit, April 5
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A pretty pretty Varied Thrush
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Dee-dee-dee -- Burnaby Lake, February 6
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Goose bath

I'm really not sure what they get out of it. Geese are pretty much as waterproof as ducks, as you can see, and they really have to work hard to get water inside their feathers -- Burnaby Lake, February 6
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Chickadee on alert -- Burnaby Lake Regional Park, February 6
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A very round Song Sparrow -- Reifel Bird Sanctuary, January 13
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LadyDragonfly, to random

If a cisgender person gets upsetti spaghetti because you used the Latin prefix cis- to describe them, I think the best thing to do is comply with their request and use the Greek synonyms homo- (same) and hetero- (different) instead.

Problemo solved, my homogender buddy.

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@johnshirley2024 @LadyDragonfly
Speaking as a cis person: no it doesn't.

Saying "bigots" ignores the fact that it's cis people getting all up in arms about the term. Not all. But, y'know, enough.

I mean, you've just been casually using "trans" all over the place. "Cis" is just as useful a term

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@johnshirley2024 @LadyDragonfly

You could put on your big (cis) boy pants and accept that trans people will vent and bitch about cis people, just like queer people about straight people, Black people about white people, etc...

That's just life. Don't be the [something negative] they're complaining about and you'll be fine.

Those people you heroically marched with long ago, did you police their language then the same way you're doing now?

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@karlauerbach @LadyDragonfly @johnshirley2024

The news that people carry stereotypes and negative connotations around certain words is not exactly news.

That said, labels are hooks to connect as well as divide. And, using them openly can be an antidote to these "emotions, past hurts, or deeply ingrained bad value systems" that you're so afraid of.

I remember reading an op-ed by Quentin Crisp, in which he advised LGBT people to stay in the closet. /

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@karlauerbach @LadyDragonfly @johnshirley2024
/ because words hurt, and he grew up in an era where self-preservation was more important than openness, and it was better to leave your granny in the dark than be open about who you were.

I'm seeing the same deference to some people's squeamishness around certain words in your posts, and John's.

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A picture-perfect immature White-crowned Sparrow -- Blackie Spit, November 17
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#BlackieSpit #birb #WhiteCrownedSparrow

npdemers, to vancouver
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Grabbing a nummy bug!
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An adorable bushtit. Lost Lagoon, August 27
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