garry, 
When I became a mother, I lost my body – and realized it never belonged to me
'The lack of autonomy I felt as a mother reiterated everything society taught me to believe about myself since I was a girl'
I feel that all men ought to read this. And maybe very young women. Older women know about it all too well.
#motherhood #feminism #parenting #BodyImage #BodyAutonomy
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/sep/11/motherhood-parenting-body-autonomy#SelfCare