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betsyvr, to random
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I hate that the NFL is doing the most for Pacific Islander representation this month šŸ˜­ https://twitter.com/NFL/status/1788962203896254855

betsyvr,
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I know weā€™re over represented in this sport but cā€™mon!! Weā€™re more than this

betsyvr,
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Understand that weā€™re not all athletes or dancers. Some of us are nerdy, awkward and chronically online.

Iā€™m living proof!!

betsyvr,
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But really, Iā€™d love to see more representation that isnā€™t centered around our bodies.

Thatā€™s why Iā€™ve always been vocal about my identity in tech. Many people either donā€™t know we even exist or have racist notions that weā€™re somehow not ā€œsmartā€ enough for this field.

The sad thing is a lot of PI kids end up believing this too.

inquiline, to random
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Something terrible happened (saw a Cybertruck)

betsyvr,
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  • skinnylatte, to random
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    To give you an idea of the Asian American anger at David Chang for being an asshole who wanted to enforce trademarks on ā€˜chilli crunchā€™, I was at my friendā€™s home in LA looking at his Asian cookbooks when he said, ā€˜you wanna see some garbage?ā€™ Then he pulled out the Momofuku cookbook and we both laughed and laughed

    betsyvr,
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    @skinnylatte Why would anyone try David Changā€™s chili crisp when Lao Gan Ma is RIGHT THERE

    skinnylatte, to random
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    Just passed a dog social club.

    Whatever that means

    https://www.dogppl.co/

    betsyvr,
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    @skinnylatte starting at $120/month??

    aarbrk, to SanFrancisco Spanish
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    World's most violent beauty products store, 4696 Mission Street.

    #sanfrancisco #california #photo

    betsyvr,
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    @divya @aarbrk lol I was wondering what the context for this was

    skinnylatte, to random
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    At a large LA park:

    • kids! Playing softball
    • grandpas and grandmas! Walking around, talking to friends, playing Chinese opera loudly
    • people of many diverse backgrounds and ages

    Just some simple things I miss about real cities. San Francisco feels like a very weird, hollowed out city on many fronts. I think if I see a bunch of kids at once in SF Iā€™ll be like ā€˜wowā€™. Outside of certain SF neighborhoods (Chinatown, Mission, TL), the city just feels very homogenous and bland to me :/

    betsyvr,
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    @skinnylatte come to the east bay! We donā€™t have fog and we have lots of good food. :)

    betsyvr, to random
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    I was wondering why I kept seeing all these Pacific Islander events coming up and realizedā€¦ itā€™s month lol.

    I normally donā€™t like this month because I never felt represented despite the ā€œPIā€ part. But lately, Iā€™ve noticed more spaces where they are intentionally including us. Thatā€™s pretty cool.

    betsyvr,
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    I still think is a problematic and flattening term. Itā€™s impossible to fully give representation to all the cultures under this label.

    betsyvr,
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    Itā€™s also okay to say just say ā€œAsian/Asian Americanā€ when youā€™re referring to those groups. I get annoyed when Pacific Islanders are dragged into these conversations that are not for us.

    An example: The model minority myth which is not a common experience for us.

    divya, to random
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  • betsyvr,
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    @divya hold onā€” mango fest?? I need this in my life

    skinnylatte, to random
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    For someone who lives in San Francisco who doesnā€™t know how to drive a car, Iā€™ve certainly eaten my way through large chunks of the Bay Area

    betsyvr,
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    @skinnylatte Sadly, this is a product of our crappy public transit infrastructure. Many Americans were raised (including myself) to believe that driving means being independent.

    In reality, drivers are dependent on car insurance, gas prices, and traffic congestion. :/

    skinnylatte, to random
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    sometimes i really want to support 'emerging POC chefs in the bay area' but then they say things like 'ā€˜high-vibrational foods', 'alkaline foods' etc

    betsyvr,
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    @skinnylatte coughs Ananda Fuara, Loving Hut, etc

    skinnylatte, to food
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    Me: I never eat frozen food!

    Also me: I love yoshinoya frozen gyudon!

    Iā€™ve now changed my mind to accept culturally relevant frozen food

    https://www.sayweee.com/en/product/Yoshinoya-Cooked-Beef-with-Onions-in-Sauce--Frozen/2478?referral_id=4972487&lang=en&utm_source=copyLink

    (Growing up in the tropics, we never had anything frozen. Itā€™s more of a cultural bias from lack of exposure)

    Yoshinoya is also what I spent all my pocket money on as a teenager, so it also makes me feel nostalgic even tho I can make better gyudon from scratch now

    betsyvr,
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    @skinnylatte Yoshinoya has frozen foods? šŸ¤Æ I need to tell everyone in my family this. My mom and I are obsessed with their beef bowls.

    skinnylatte, to random
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    I feel Iike polyamory would be more attractive to me if it didnā€™t remind me so much of work.

    betsyvr,
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    @skinnylatte oh hell no. If anyone did this to me, Iā€™d make our date a speedy meeting and gtfo of there

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