Painfully aware that all my chosen strategies rest on an assumption that any sex with men was always consensual. Chastened to be reminded that this is in no way the case for everyone 💔❤️🩹
My sequel - after an adventurous young adulthood, #queer#polyamorous#autistic me settled into a monogamous partnership with a cis het man (IKR?! 🤷🏼♀️) who after the birth of our second child had a vasectomy.
Men can be kind & loving. Even in a culture that teaches them otherwise.