kelidanovus

Impossible_PhD, 17 hours ago to random

I'll be taking next week off on SGW. Several reasons why, but generally busy. I'll be out of town for part of the weekend and....

I bought a new car on Monday. My very first new car. For those who haven't, buying a new car is a Whole Fucking Process.

So yeah. Taking the breather.

Hannah, 1 day ago to random

Thinking of @kelidanovus, has anyone heard from her?

kelidanovus, 4 days ago to random

Learned from a Jewish friend yesterday that there’s an argument to be made that what was taken from Adam to make Eve is not accurately translated as a “rib”, but rather “side” or “aspect”.

So that would mean God took the feminine from Adam to make Eve, leaving behind the masculine.

Working backwards then, if Adam was originally made in the image of God and encompassed both masculine and feminine, God is enby, and by embracing both we can draw nearer to the divine.

JoscelynTransient, 5 days ago (edited 2 days ago) to trans

Out of curiosity, TRANS FEMS: have you ever dated, been in, or are currently in a t4t relationship?

#trans #Transgender #TransFem #TransWoman #mtf

kelidanovus, 5 days ago to random

Witness protection ain’t got nothing on the transition timelines of my friends.

kelidanovus, 8 days ago to random

Trying to work the week before bottom surgery is like trying to pay attention to the teacher the week before Christmas. Who can possibly concentrate like this?

Impossible_PhD, 9 days ago to random

I just got some really good news.

That presentation I pitched about SGW? For the prestigious panel that's hard to get into at the prestigious conference that's hard to get into?

I got in.

Impossible_PhD, 9 days ago to trans

Coming out is hard, and coming out as trans is even harder. As trans folks, we have to do it in a way pretty much nobody else ever does.

This week on #StainedGlassWoman, we're looking at the rhetoric of How To Come Out Anywhere, so you can feel a little more confident when you invite the people you love into a deeper relationship with you.

#Trans #transgender #MtF #FtM #Nonbinary #Enby

https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/p/how-to-come-out-anywhere

Impossible_PhD, 10 days ago to random

The end of spring term is a really hard time for me. There's so much to do, and so many different things to do, and the no rest plus constant task switching absolutely obliterates me because of my autism which, since I'm really not out about it, I can't even talk about or get help for.

It leaves me feeling deeply worthless.

And even if/when people tell me otherwise round this time of the year, it doesn't feel believable, because I can barely function for weeks on end.

I just feel broken.

Impossible_PhD, 10 days ago to random

Every now and again, I sit down to make a transition timeline, because I took a selfie I like in particular and I just go

Holy shit. How did that used to be me?

Impossible_PhD, 12 days ago to random

I love this dress.

kelidanovus, 12 days ago to random

Ewwphoria: accused of “too much emotion” in a daily scrum. 🙄

Impossible_PhD, 13 days ago to random

So I'm pitching a talk about Stained Glass Woman for a major conference next year.

In the Queer Caucus' featured panel.

Wish me luck!

Impossible_PhD, 20 days ago to random

I was seasoning my new corset today and accidentally created A Look that I will ABSOLUTELY be reproducing.

kelidanovus, 24 days ago to trans

Entering my hot girl era 20 years late is infinitely better than never.

#trans #transjoy #selfie

Impossible_PhD, 25 days ago to random

I grabbed lunch with a friend and she snapped a casual shot of me. When I asked why, she showed me the shot. 🤭

Impossible_PhD, 26 days ago to random

It came with a typo, saying associate (which I already was) instead of full, but it came today.

I am officially a full professor!

Big day today, that's for sure!

Impossible_PhD, 28 days ago to random

Gosh, I can't even do butch without femming it up, can I?

Impossible_PhD, 29 days ago to random

Well, it's been two months.

Looks like my novel didn't make it with Bindery Books. 😢

DivineKestrel, 1 month ago to random

Me: I'm so sick of this i'm three months post surgery why do I have so much wound separation and pain?!

Also me: Look at this pretty flagstone walkway I laid last weekend with an ajoining stone-walled succulent garden. I didn't want to rent a Bobcat so those two large 600 pound boulders I had to roll into position and stand up by hand.

Impossible_PhD, 1 month ago to nonbinary

One of the scariest parts of coming out is coming out at work. Unlike your family--blood or chosen--work is just a bunch of people who get thrown together, mishmash, and have to make things work out.

This week on #StainedGlassWoman, it's a guide to give to your coworkers when they get that wide-eyed look and think "Oh, s#!t, my coworker just told me they're trans." At least, it should keep people from asking what's in your goddamned pants.

#FtM #MtF #Nonbinary #Trans

https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/p/oh-st-my-coworker-just-told-me-theyre

kelidanovus, 1 month ago to trans

It’s unseasonably warm so I broke out a summer dress while it lasts. Not going to lie: I’m feeling kind of pretty today.

#trans #selfie #TransJoy

kelidanovus, 1 month ago to random

TFW you only realize your pajamas are inside out because the Starfleet insignia is on the wrong boob. 🫣