There is one main reason I have a problem with white male politicians and judges deciding for me about reproductive rights. (Ok, at 67 I'm not worried about my personal reproductive rights.) Being wealthy, white and male they can not possibly decide for all women whether or when they should decide to have children. (That whole Pro-Life thing is a smokescreen.)
And while partners can vote, they don't have the deciding vote. When men start having babies, then they are allowed to decide.