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Vinjii

@Vinjii@wandering.shop

Swiss lesbian šŸŒˆ somewhere in the UK. Elder Millennial. Made of šŸ“š šŸ“ŗ and šŸŽ® She/Her šŸ’œ Chaotic, genre-confused author, and excellent editor.

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Vinjii, to tvshows
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What cheesy tv-shows that are addictive bingeable dramas do you think one should have watched? Asking for... myself

Vinjii, to languagelearning
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Iā€™ve noticed that I am not really passionate about anything in life. I like a lot of things, but nothing lights me up. Trying to figure out if I somehow havenā€™t tried THE hobby yet. How do people find out what they like?

Iā€™d like to do some but donā€™t know which one. Japanese, Korean, or Mandarin. My brain keeps yelling: ALL OF THEM.

Iā€™m thinking of doing a course. Probably in-person more so than an online one.

Iā€™m slowly easing back into reading.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum Iā€™ve had massive surgery last year for my endometriosis and (for now) my chronic pain is better, so Iā€™d say currently Iā€™m not as limited by my body. Thankfully, I donā€™t suffer from fatigue, but my anxiety and trauma creates decision paralysis and a crippling perfectionism which often leads to me not doing something because Iā€™m afraid of doing it badly. Which Iā€™m aware is nonsense, and I should just try and do things, but I really struggle with it.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum I had a hysterectomy last year (including bowel resection, and it was on my ureter too) and Iā€™m finally a bit better, but Iā€™m pretty sure itā€™s on my ovaries still (they left those in) because there is some residual pain, and Iā€™m terrified of that getting worse again.

My mental health is usually the result of physical problems too, but I feel like my childhood led to me trying to be what I think other people expect me to be, and I never learned to figure out who I am by myself.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum Thank you :) itā€™s weird how much our brains can ā€œimprisonā€ us.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum Not yet. Iā€™m visiting my dad and have had the pleasure of watching him watch his Scandinavian crime dramas šŸ˜‚

Vinjii,
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@bluGill That's actually a good point. I'm just looking for hobbies that'll make me happy and give me a sense of joy in my life. I like learning things, and I like languages. So, it's definitely not about sounding native. Same with photography. I love taking photos, but I don't really know much about it, so it would be interesting to learn! I think I get stuck in the "I need to be perfect at the things I do" mindset; I need to shed that. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate it!

Vinjii, to animals
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Mr Blue #dogsofmastodon

Vinjii, to random
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Someone told me to install the Factorio demo, and now I'm worried... I haven't tried it yet.

Someone else told me to try Balatro, but I have zero interest in poker (don't even know the cards), so I don't think we'd get along.

I'd love to read again, but my mental health is in the gutter.

(If anyone finds it, hand it back, & if anyone is currently talking to the universe, please let it know that I don't need anymore lessons, thank you.)

Vinjii,
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The other day I thought maybe I'd finally get into Robin Hobb since Fitz is about as miserable as I am...

I just want to read again. But I cannot focus on anything complex so that rules out seemingly all of my usual genres.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum I lost interest in reading trash too, and prefer watching trashy television instead. Iā€™m sorry youā€™re dealing with this. Itā€™s frustrating.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum Iā€™m always looking for recs. Thatā€™s how I discovered Criminal Minds the other week, and while that has a billion seasons, itā€™s very easy to watch and made me happy. Recs are always very very welcome.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum oh those both sound wonderful. Thank you šŸ™

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum no, not usually. Iā€™m pretty okay with most things.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum that sounds fantastic. thank you for the recs!

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum Finished My Fairy Ghost and loved it! Thank you šŸ’œ

Vinjii, to Steamdeck
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What are your favourite games on the #SteamDeck ? I've got too many games still to play, but always looking for new recommendations #VideoGames

Vinjii, to Anime
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Iā€™m also thinking of watching more #anime again now that I have excess free time šŸ¤” just have to figure out what the best way is for that when travelling a lot.

Vinjii,
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@emmaaum @geraineon Thank you šŸ¤©

Vinjii,
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@geraineon Always looking for recs. Iā€™ve probably watched a bit of a weird selection, but these are my highly rated ones:

Gankutsuou, Katanagatari, Steins;Gate, Mawaru Penguindrum, Shiki, Mahou Shoujo Madokaā˜…Magica.

https://myanimelist.net/animelist/Vinjii&view=list&status=2

Vinjii, to random
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It is my goal in life to find a wife who will write books with me inside a blanket fort.

Vinjii, to television
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I need a #kdrama or #cdrama recommendation where the romance has a happy ending, please? I cannot afford to have my heart shredded by fiction currently.

And my brain doesnā€™t seem to be able to deal with words currently so Iā€™m not reading.

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    Vinjii,
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    @arratoon so so, thank you.

    Vinjii, to random
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    Details #10films #cinemastodon

    2/2

    Lola Rennt - 90 minutes of pure fun that keep me on the edge of my seat to this day

    The Talented Mr. Ripley - I love films about villains, especially when they get away with it (if you have any such recommendations, send them my way)

    AmƩlie - It's so beautiful, charming and quaint, it makes my heart sing, plus AmƩlie's brain? A lot like mine (meaning my gf hated it)

    Pan's Labyrinth - I love open endings

    Shutter Island - I sat there with my jaw in my lap

    Vinjii,
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    @arratoon No, I have not but I definitely will because Alain Delon as Ripley sounds magnificent.

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