apodoxus

apodoxus, 2 months ago to dating

Woman texts me on a date with another man to tell me that she's a winner and getting laid and I'm not. As part of her weird attempt at whatever proceeds to tell me she got compliments for her blowjob skills the day before. I told her this is weird and gross behavior, I'm not interested anymore and that there are more mature ways to tell someone you're not interested but she claims this was not her intent. Okay... 😅🤢🤮

People don't do this, right? WTF.

Adventurers in modern #dating.

apodoxus, 2 months ago to random

This is so annoying. The other day I was over-stressed and burnt out from doing too much. Now I feel icky from doing too little. Impossible to satisfy these gods!

Nagaram, 2 months ago to random

My fiance thinks it's bad that I think of payments in terms of hours of my life.

I make $22/hr

I paid about one hour of my life for lunch

I went drinking and spent 5 hours of my life there in food and drinks

Rent costs me 20 hours of my life

It helps keep everything in perspective personally

realhackhistory, 2 months ago to random

The plot with Julian continues to thicken.
https://www.theguardian.com/media/2024/mar/20/julian-assange-wikileaks-plea-deal

apodoxus, 2 months ago to Stockholm

I've been watching walking tours on crowded streets and something I noticed is that people in #Stockholm are absolutely terrible at it compared to Americans. I've noticed the same thing in the city near here. I don't understand why Swedes seem to be missing this brain module. 😆 Everything else is so organized here. People fucking love standing in lines in #Sweden.

https://youtu.be/wXNasmLPiTM

apodoxus, 2 months ago to Depression

This is how I would draw my current #depression. Everything has been the best ever for the last few months but now I'm back to where I started. Since this started, I've come out of it for a few hours or days but each time it goes back down it's worse...

apodoxus, 2 months ago to random

People born in 1962 are 62 this year.

neurovagrant, 2 months ago to random

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apodoxus, 2 months ago to psychology

Building self-efficacy (confidence in your ability to accomplish your goals) is itself a skill. Start small and build up gradually by accomplishing smaller successes. Continue in this way until you get where you're going.

#psychology #mentalhealth

apodoxus, 2 months ago to SEOUL

This relaxes me. #Seoul #SouthKorea

Why is the color so good in this video though?

Also, why do so many people have umbrellas but not shoes appropriate for a rainy day?

https://youtu.be/H7LcgDQAIew

#relaxation

dalias, 2 months ago to random

Really vile security antipattern in gaming: enable 2FA and get a free in-game thing.

What this is supposed to do: defend against giving password to scammers.

What this actually teaches: "do something with your account security settings to get something free" is a legitimate pattern. IOW phishing is following a legitimate pattern.

apodoxus, 2 months ago (edited 2 months ago) to random

brb Going to chop a watermelon in half with a machete. 🍉

dalias, 2 months ago to random

Fediverse 0day (not verified but 99% sure it works):

Toot something with content ppl will support and boost in the html but something horrible in the plain text or vice versa.

This inspired by instances that put all the @'s in html so they don't get rendered right on reader's instance. 🤬

apodoxus, 2 months ago to Health

I figured out a practical way to reduce salt intake. What I do is note the date that I refill the salt shaker (100g salt) and then try to extend the amount of time it goes between refills gradually.

If you live with other people, then I guess you'd need your own personal salt shaker.

#health

apodoxus, 2 months ago to random

@SomaFMrusty You ever think about having a lo-fi hip-hop channel to compete with LoFi Girl?

Radical_EgoCom, 2 months ago to random

To those who say "capitalism doesn't force people to do anything. They have free will", if someone put a gun to the head of someone, would that not be a use of force? And how would you feel if the gunman said "I'm not forcing you to do anything. You have the freewill not to give me your money." But if you don't then you'll die, just like the worker will die if they don't do what the capitalist says.

#capitalism #capitalist #exploitation #force #workers #worker

apodoxus, 2 months ago to mentalhealth

If it's fear, then I confront it instead of avoiding it.

If it's anger, then I avoid it instead of confronting it.

This is working really fucking well, and the theory is beautiful too.

#fear #anger #selfdevelopment #mentalhealth