skinnylatte,
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At a large LA park:

  • kids! Playing softball
  • grandpas and grandmas! Walking around, talking to friends, playing Chinese opera loudly
  • people of many diverse backgrounds and ages

Just some simple things I miss about real cities. San Francisco feels like a very weird, hollowed out city on many fronts. I think if I see a bunch of kids at once in SF I’ll be like ‘wow’. Outside of certain SF neighborhoods (Chinatown, Mission, TL), the city just feels very homogenous and bland to me :/

tessala,

@skinnylatte I love my radical SF community. Come to the Mission! It’s almost as warm as Oakland… almost 😶‍🌫️😅

skinnylatte,
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@tessala yes pls :)

djcapelis,
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@skinnylatte I was actually pretty pleased at the level of diversity I’m seeing in the sf scavenger hunt type game going on right now. :) Was a totally pleasant time today!

sfpodge,
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@skinnylatte agreed there are many blah neighborhoods in SF. In addition to those you list, I’d add Duboce Triangle and Ingleside/Oceanview as other dynamic spots

skinnylatte,
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@sfpodge I like Ingleside / ocean / balboa park / outer mission also

sfpodge,
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@skinnylatte outer mission has some of the best greasy spoons in the city 😋

skinnylatte,
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@sfpodge and Chinese bbq (Do Eat) and fish tacos when they reopen (Chicano Nuevo)

skinnylatte,
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When you build a city that only people who can afford 3-7K rent can live in, you get a city that feels just like what people who can afford 3-7K in rent want.

There are bits and bobs, but for the most part I feel you have to really look, or spend a lot of time looking for community that isn’t homogenous.

Some neighbors of mine in SF (that I like) just told me they’re leaving cos they can’t exist without tech jobs.

skinnylatte,
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I’ve been advocating hard for us to move to the east bay at some point. Not in the next couple of years (need to be within 20min transit commute range of school / work) but maybe after.

I love San Francisco, but I don’t think I can live there long term. It’s not good for my soul. As it is I have to go sit in a park in Chinatown every couple of weeks to feel like I don’t have only rich, white, tech people around me.

skinnylatte,
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There are a bunch of lefty tech people I know and love in SF. That helps, but it still doesn’t scratch my need to be in much more diverse community.

grumpasaurus,
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@skinnylatte I interpreted that as left handed

skinnylatte,
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@grumpasaurus probably also. I will only have left handed friends from now

kf,
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@skinnylatte I left the bay because of all the tech people, so this feels relatable to me 🫠

skinnylatte,
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@kf somehow I think it got worse since you left. They got political now

betsyvr,
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@skinnylatte come to the east bay! We don’t have fog and we have lots of good food. :)

skinnylatte,
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@betsyvr planning!!!

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