I Just Don’t See Trans Women As Women

I just can’t wrap my head around it. They want to be called and seen woman, but they have to get bottom surgery. Take hormone pills, all these excessive stuff to be a woman. They don’t have menstrual cycles nor can they carry a child. Why can’t they just be happy being a male and just wear feminine clothes? Like a femboy or just simply be gay. Do you hate yourself that much that you have to change your entire gender? Teaching children and giving them the illusion that they weren’t assigned the right sex at birth you hear how crazy that sounds? Having to be OK with them going into our bathrooms, not knowing if they could be a predator or not. I honestly honestly feel like they’re pushing enforcing this on us. The porn industry and pharmaceuticals are making so much bank from this

Edit: Many people seem to disagree with me and believe we can identify ourselves as anything we want so I would like to say I am not black anymore. I am white. I don’t feel comfortable in my skin. I don’t feel like this is my right race. So now I will be trans white. I will be starting a GoFundMe soon, thank you

DessertStorms, (edited )
DessertStorms avatar

Imagine being such a pathetic and fragile loser that you spend your time creating burner accounts to spread transphobia..

For anyone actually looking to learn:

https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/voices/stop-using-phony-science-to-justify-transphobia/

https://www.nature.com/articles/518288a

https://web.archive.org/web/20240409072133/https://zeefeed.com.au/anti-trans-feminism-nazi-ideology/

https://scatter.wordpress.com/2022/01/30/sex-as-a-social-construct/

FfaerieOxide,
FfaerieOxide avatar

Why could you just come out and say you were a transphobe instead of dancing around with all this racist shit in other threads?

Oh wait, in this thread too.

dataprolet,
@dataprolet@lemmy.dbzer0.com avatar

Have you even tried educating yourself prior to posting this bullshit?

EndlessApollo,

Fuck you too asswipe :3

deadgirlwalking,

With your vagina or penis? Which one are were you assigned with? I’m straight

EndlessApollo,

Not literally, I’d never fuck a cis person, I only date normal people xp

deadgirlwalking,

Normal? Yikes

FfaerieOxide,
FfaerieOxide avatar

Normal? Yikes

Yeah, normal. Not cis

Just regular as opposed to people who let their parents pick their gender out for them.

deadgirlwalking,

Since we can identify ourselves as anything we want, I am not black anymore. I am white.

deadgirlwalking,

No, don’t downvote me for this so I wanna be white now, why can’t I be it?

HubertManne,
HubertManne avatar

I getcha. this gender is not sex is not the way I or anyone used gender before the last few years. All the same its fine that people want to have their bodies however they want.

raunz,
@raunz@mander.xyz avatar

Hi, sex is not gender. Best regards

deadgirlwalking,

I’m sorry, but I will not be forced or pushed to believe that these people are a woman they are not. They decided to put so much money in time and energy into changing themselves, that’s not my problem and I don’t have to accept it. I am not going allow them to call me a CIS woman or birthing person so that they can feel included. I’m not gonna change my labels for them to feel better about themselves. What they can do is establish their own bathrooms. Keep your labels as trans woman and leave our alone. You’re not a woman, stop.

Xantar,

Good news for everyone is, your belief or approval is not required.

drops the mic

Hey it’s you again. What a coincidence. Hi :)

Don’t delete your post too fast this time.

deadgirlwalking,

Then why are you guys in the comments debating with me about this? Move on

Xantar, (edited )

I for one, find it entertaining. For the rest, I think you just put yourself into this situation. Reaping, sowing, Actions consequences, all that.

Flummoxed,

Because we actually do want to spend the time standing up for our sisters. The fact you posted this means you were looking for feedback. Well, here it is, and maybe you will educate yourself more about this issue.

Lemming421,
@Lemming421@lemmy.world avatar

You’re a transphobe and an asshole. Got it.

You’ve had your shower thoughts, everyone is telling you why you’re wrong. At best your ideas are from the last century. At worst you’re just a troll. We can’t make you get with the times or summon the smallest amount of empathy for other people, but we can shun you for your offensive attitudes.

deadgirlwalking,

Since everyone seems to disagree. Does that mean I can claim and identify myself as a white person even though I was born black? I don’t feel comfortable in my skin and I believe that I’m a white person at heart so can I be a white person?

ccunning,

You can claim whatever you want ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Flummoxed,

Fucking A, let’s get this girl a skin transplant! You SHOULD feel good in your skin.

deadgirlwalking,

I’ll start a go fund me

Flummoxed,

Would you be disgusted if trans persons did the same for themselves? Yes? Well, you can’t have it both ways, sorry. Need to be disgusted with yourself too, then.

ccunning,

If you go through life upset with how others are you’re going to have a tough time because you can’t control how others are.

Life will be a lot easier for you if you learn to accept others for who they are since it’s beyond your control.

Whorehoarder,

Pretty sure you’d be able to spot a predator, unless they were using that cloaking thing. They are huge and have weird tentacle-braids, and no concealed weapons permit.

KoboldCoterie,
@KoboldCoterie@pawb.social avatar

Having to be OK with them going into our bathrooms, not knowing if they could be a predator or not

Let me ask you something. You just outlined how much time, money and effort someone has to put into trying to transition. Hormone pills (and all of the problems that come with that), a change of wardrobe, a change in how they’re asking people to view and refer to them… Dealing with people like you, who look down on them for trying it… Hate from far right groups, persecution from some governments… General social stigma…

Do you really think someone is going to go through all of that, and more that you haven’t even covered here, just so they can walk into a women’s room to… do whatever it is you’re afraid they’re doing? Really? I think the chances are better that any random woman you run into in the bathroom is a predator, honestly.

deadgirlwalking,

They shouldn’t waste their time doing it. Be happy with who you are.

KoboldCoterie,
@KoboldCoterie@pawb.social avatar

That’s not what I asked you, though.

deadgirlwalking,

I wouldn’t know any man can dress up as a woman whether it’s a trans or not and the predator. People need to think about the safety of women

Flummoxed,

Who are you to tell anyone how to spend their time? How they conceive of themselves in their minds (where they do feel good (hopefully) about who they are) does not match their physical bodies (which can feel alien and abhorrent to them). Feel humbled you have never experienced such a state of being, and let people rock on with they bad selves.

deadgirlwalking,

Listen if they want to spend their time doing that great but I don’t have to accept it sorry

Flummoxed,

No one needs your acceptance in this situation. Don’t judge things you don’t understand, THAT is actually wasting time.

IWantToFuckSpez,

Lol and nobody has to accept you.

Lemming421,
@Lemming421@lemmy.world avatar

Why can’t they just be happy being a male and just wear feminine clothes?

My god, you’re a genius. No trans person has ever tried “just being happy” with how they are. They put themselves through the misery and surgery and social stigmatisation, when all they had to do was “be happy”.

I bet you could solve depression too, if you put your mind to it.

deadgirlwalking,

Then they should just learn to love themselves as a man and not put themselves through that

Lemming421,
@Lemming421@lemmy.world avatar

Why? Because it makes you feel better?

I think they know themselves and what they need better than you do.

deadgirlwalking,

I think they are ill minded and need to learn that they are who they are and accept it and move on. Why do you need to change your whole self a whole different identity? They need heavy therapy

Lemming421,
@Lemming421@lemmy.world avatar

Again, you’re basing all of this on your opinion of what a woman is.

And you’re wrong. It’s as simple as that.

deadgirlwalking,

I’m not, sorry

Hobbes_Dent,

Why do people think that bodies are immutable and descriptive of who you are but brains and identity can be changed by thought?

Just like telling people with mental health issues to get over it and stop.

deadgirlwalking,

I never said that bodies are not immutable. I’m just saying trans genders are not the sex that they want to be, whether a trans woman trans man. You were not assigned that at birth, that is not your sex.

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