Mrfunkedude,
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So I have this hypothesis that people who never listen to music past their teenage years do so because of a traumatic event in their childhood.

Music became a comfort to them during this time which switched it from being just enjoyable, to being enjoyable plus emotionally comforting.

Hence the desire not to listen to music outside of that comfort zone because any music past that, is no longer comforting and no longer serves a need.

Or not. I don't know. It's just a thought.

zalasur,
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@Mrfunkedude I think there might be some truth to this, but I know a lot of people whose music listening habits stopped at around the age of 17 for some perfectly banal reasons.

I love listening to new music. I also like to go back to the classics I grew up with too, but there's joy in discovering new things that artists are coming out with in 2024.

Whenever someone says, "they don't make songs like they used to" I feel bad because they clearly aren't listening. It's a preconception filter.

_,
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@Mrfunkedude There’s something here, I think.

I still listen to some current music (have trouble with current crop of country music), and things I grew up on.

Now, I find myself hearing and understanding far more nuances. Sometimes that’s good, and sometimes that makes me realize how much the world has changed since.

chris,
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@Mrfunkedude I think you're definitely onto something. I really identify with this, but I wouldn't go so far as to say it was any trauma for me, just a significant, emotionally-charged time of discovery and exploration.
Kind of in the same way that people say "I don't feel my age, I still feel like a kid!", some days I actually do feel my age, and listening to music from certain eras of my life is a way to re-capture and remind myself of the different pieces that have gone into making me who I am today.
Just a thought 👴 🎶

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