"Since you're both girls, how do you decide who opens doors?"
"But you're guys, how do you decide who pays for dinner?"
"Who decides......"
We talk about it.
Didn't see that one coming, did ya? Yes, when you don't have (or don't want to follow) gender roles, you have to talk about things. Just like any people having to make a decision for themselves. It's not a big deal. I like talking to my husband.
For a lot of things, one of us took the initiative and the other eventually circled back to see if that was working out. Other times we have to just talk it out.
Like recently it was technically HIS turn to pay for groceries. However, since the last trip he'd paid for a bunch of night's takeout and frozen stuff he bought on his way home. So I felt it made more sense for me to pay for the groceries again.
