imdat

@imdat@tau-ceti.space

イムダット・セレステ :flag_genderfluid: :flag_enbian: :flag_trixic: :flag_sapiosexual: :polyam_flag: :flag_progress: :autism: NaG NaB & Proud 💘 #LoveOfMyLife ❤️#MyAdoredDaughter 🐈 I talk with animals

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thomasfuchs, to retrocomputing
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Go back to your old logo, Microsoft cowards. #retrocomputing

imdat,

@thomasfuchs On a Commodore 64-II????

imdat,

@thomasfuchs Just pulling your leg and trying to "show off my retro-knowledge" 🤪 (🔜🚪)

imdat,

@thomasfuchs 😍

agatha, to random

good morning

imdat,

@agatha Bonan matenon, blindiga Agata. Mi deziras al vi lumigitan tagon. (Esperanto)
#GoodMorningAgatha

imdat,

@agatha Hey, com'n, Esperanto is not a conlang... it is widely used by (... counts fingers ...) 8,5 people 😂

imdat,

@agatha :blobcatscience:

imdat, to fediverse

I think I am gonna go to sleep now. Good night, my lovely and cherished of . Sleep well and dream a little dream of sugarplums and ... well, I don't know what you are going to dream, but I for one will dream of my amazing trans brothers this night - their beauty and their love and their loveliness.

rooster, to random
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    imdat,

    @Cyb3rVix3n There absolutely is. There are some amazing trans masc people here (Hi @deilann ), talk to them.

    But yeah, I know what you mean. You can't access it because, well, you are not a man or you are not masc? (sorry, I couldn't find anything on your profile about your gender except your pronouns and the mentioned pinned toot doesn't seem to exist)

    @rooster

    agatha, to random

    goooood morning

    imdat,

    @agatha Goedemorgen, oogverblindende Agatha. Ik wens je een verlichte dag. (Dutch)
    #GoodMorningAgatha

    endali, (edited ) to random

    I was suppressing my feelings and attraction to boys for almost my entire life. The environment I was growing up in and my upbringing made me act bigoted in many ways, something that I regret to this very day non-stop.

    I feel like the self-realization ball started to roll when I joined the goth subculture. I remember having very gay thoughts that I consciously acknowledged at my first goth events around 2019. Since the goth subculture is also extremely queer, I got the chance to openly chat with many queer folk (and had the pleasure of [obliviously at the time] flirting online with a trans bi boy 😳 :heart_trans:​). I also met my lovely partner through a goth online community, who is bisexual herself and helped me understand and accept my feelings.🥰

    But the moment when I fully broke through the ice in my mind and really accepted who I am was something old school - it was watching Rocky Horror for the first time.💗

    Don't dream it - be it.:heart_bi:​​

    imdat,

    @endali Thank you for sharing this lovely story, my friend. If I can give you one advice as someone who is really, really old: don't regret it, it is what it is, but those mistakes are also part of what made us who we are today. Don't regret it, just accept that you made a mistake, apologize to the people where it can help the people (not yourself), and keep going and being a wonderful person - a person far better than the one long time ago.

    And yeah, thank the goth scene 😂

    😍🫂

    imdat,

    @endali 😘 Thank you, my beloved friend. See reply above :QueerCatHeart_Bisexual:

    imdat,

    @endali 🫂 There is so much in past that, when I think back, really, really hurts. I try not to look back mainly to protect my sanity, and try to be a better human going forward. Pain of mistakes past can sometimes be cathartic and help us become better people, but in my experience, most of the time that pain just hurts and is very rarely cathartic. If you can look at the past mistakes with the eyes of a scientist to analyze and take action, it is good, but otherwise, it is just pain for pain's sake...

    I think you know that you are good person, otherwise there wouldn't be so many people who really love you... 💜

    agatha, to random

    and good morning

    imdat,

    @agatha सुप्रभात, चकाचौंध अगाथा। आपको प्रबुद्ध दिवस की कामना। (Dogri)
    #GoodMorningAgatha

    agatha, to random

    i had a wild dream, it had all kinds of bizarre stuff
    it had wonder woman, me trying to kill people, cars that do not exist, girls flirting with me and istg even apoki had a cameo

    imdat,

    @agatha 🥰🥰🥰

    imdat,

    @agatha Sounds like an amusing/amazing dream

    imdat,

    @agatha :blobhaj_hug:

    imdat, to random

    I guess, I still have to learn a lot about living a life as an open trans non-binary person. And I mean: A fucking lot!

    Today, we had a friend of my wife visiting us. We hadn't seen each other for quite some time. He is gay. We used to have a good relationship. The last time we had seen each other, I had told him that I came out as trans non-binary. Since this was in early days, there was not really anything to talk about.

    But today, I was the person I am now: an out and proud non-binary person. And I don't really take shit anymore - from anyone.

    So, today, I learned that just being (technically) part of the LGBTQIA+ community doesn't mean that a "G"-person is an ally - or even interested in what being trans is. That a "G"-person can even be a fully-fledged asshole:

    (Please skip the following dialog if you don't feel well, it is very dysphoric)

    --- snip ---
    "I really don't get the 'gender'-thing. So, there is biological sex, right?" ("Geschlecht")
    "No, there is biological sexual organ called genitalia" ("Geschlechtsteil"/"Geschlechtsorgan")
    "Isn't that the same?"
    😖🤢

    It went on for a while along these lines. Since my wife actually likes this guy, I continued the conversation.

    "So, what about sexual orientation?"
    "What about it?"
    "How do you call it when a transsexual..." - sic 🤢 - "... woman..."
    "Please, don't use that word!"
    "Which word?"
    "Transsexual"
    "Why? Isn't that how it is called?"
    "No, and it is not 'it', it is us, and we are called 'trans gender' unless one of us specifically says they are called 'transsexual'"
    "... too complicated for me... anyway, how do you call it when a trans gender woman is attracted to a " - don't say it, please - " ... biological... " -😩 cis, please - "... cis woman?"
    "Lesbian!"
    "... oh, ... umm... and when a trans gender woman is attracted to a man"
    "Hetero"
    "But..." - please don't! - "... but" - just don't fucking say anything anymore!

    ...

    "And if you, Imdat, a non-binary you say?, are attracted to a woman?" - trixic.
    "Are you attracted yo non-binary people? How do you call it?" - Yes, enbian.
    "Men?" - "I am not attracted to men, so I never looked that up.
    "You are not attracted to men?" - no, I am not
    "But attracted to nonbinary" - yes!
    "But what if a non-binary ..." - please don't say it, please - "... is a man?" - they are non-binary - "... ok, if they have a penis..."

    ENOUGH!!!!!!!🤯🤬

    (NB: we started talking about Pride Munich and he told me he stopped going there some ten years ago and he liked it when it was a protest and not a party; I tried to tell him that, yeah, that that was probably around the time when trans people started going to the parade and he: "Yeah, in my time, we had only L, G, and B, no T, no full alphabet +" -- YIKES!)

    imdat,

    @endali Thank you, my friend. Yeah, when it comes to some people in the LGBTQIA+ community, I seem to still be somewhat naive sometimes. Yeah, my view is very tainted with the experiences I have here on Fedi with all the wonderful lesbian, gay, and bisexual people (look around) here...

    But no worries, I'll be fine. Tomorrow, we are going for dinner with some wonderful couple, whom I know to be very, very warm and lovely. And we'll be at a party, too, so, yeah, no worries...

    imdat,

    @deilann umm, my experience with L, G, and B people after coming out is, fortunately or unfortunately, defined by my experience with them here on Fedi and that was 100% positive so far, so this came a bit as a (negative) suprise 😂🤷

    But I'll be ok (especially with all the warmth I receive here) 💜

    imdat,

    @inherentlee 🫂

    imdat,

    Apologies! I didn't want to ruin anyone's night/evening/day, but sometimes we need to rant, right?

    And thank you all for the support and comforting words, hugs, and love. I love you all - a lot!

    imdat,

    @agatha 🫂 thank you. Yeah, I learned it now ... 💜

    imdat,

    @sysop408 Oh, that created some weird flashbacks what with me and my migrant background 😂 - I know what you mean...

    See, one of the things I felt was that he felt as if we were taking something away from him ... 😔

    imdat,

    @sysop408 No, don't worry. Nobody said anything, but being #ActuallyAutistic I feel I have to apologize preemptively for maybe ruining someone's day 😔

    imdat,

    @sysop408 I see what you mean. Yes, this can happen.

    Some twenty years ago, I was talking with a friend (member of the conservative party, a great guy who got a liking to me and we are still friends; but he is the conservative you really want in your life, not an asshole-bigot). He told me that in in the aftermath of the student revolts of the 1960ies, his party + the other big party agreed on a strategic goal: massively subsidize home ownership for everybody, especially for young people.

    The reasoning: "People who have something to lose don't start revolutions".

    Yeah, I can understand that people don't start a revolution once you have something to lose. But one should not kick the people below oneselves... we're all in this (life) together, even the billionaires and assholes...

    Some_Emo_Chick, to random
    @Some_Emo_Chick@mastodon.social avatar

    Why is the New York Times glorifying the career of lifelong charlatan Uri Geller?

    The puff piece downplays the lies Geller has told over the past several decades

    #NYTimes #Scam #UriGeller #Fraud

    https://friendlyatheist.substack.com/p/why-is-the-new-york-times-glorifying

    imdat,

    @Some_Emo_Chick Thank you for this. Very insightful. I always thought Geller to be a con-man and never really cared. But this article is right: he is actually a dangerous con-man.

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