@JoscelynTransient You know, the thing about me is that I'd put most of the pieces together on my own and, at that age (about 23), I was pretty fearless. My partner helped me see why I should be out as bisexual, and I was freshly out and proud. I'd already been someone's maid of honor because I was "the closest thing to a woman friend" that person had. The only thing that held me back was that, when I tried to come out as "androgynous", it wasn't a thing and I couldn't get any understanding.