Serious question: why in the hell is OkCupid primarily showing me "straight, monogamous" women to match with? Like, what makes their system think a cis, straight, monogamous woman is looking for a polyamorous, bisexual trans woman to date???
They used to have a setting that was "i don't want to be seen by straight people" and you could choose to only view people who are the sexual orientations and relationship structure that apply to you. Now it's all behind a paywall....enshittification of apps that were a shitty experience to begin with! 😖
