@Hunterrules0_o the patriarchy, if it wasn't obvious. The patriarchy hurts men, too. Feminism is for everyone, and dismantling the patriarchy would prevent you from getting your fee-fees hurt when women don't feel safe around you. An idea for the meantime is to simply be someone they feel safe around, perhaps by quitting the misogyny trolling.
In case it wasn't clear, I agree that we shouldn't assume men are violent. But I don't blame people for prioritizing their safety over (y)our feelings.