clacke,

"Voting isn’t marriage - it’s public transport. You are not waiting for “the one” who is absolutely perfect."

With this metric, is even marriage like marriage? Do people believe there is exactly one person out of seven billion that is your soulmate and you have to find them?

Tangent from:

mstdn.social/users/sandlapper3… @sandlapper37

clacke,

More eloquent and explicit:
RE: cosocial.ca/users/mpjgregoire/…

mpjgregoire,
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@clacke I gave this sort of thing a fair amount of thought back in my early 30s. This essay was good, as I recall: https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2008/03/marry-him/306651/

Dr. Johnson also had some wisdom on the idea of "The One":
Boswell: "Pray, Sir, do you not suppose that there are fifty women in the world, with any one of whom a man may be as happy, as with any one woman in particular?" Johnson: "Ay, Sir, fifty thousand."

#SamuelJohnson
#marriage

clacke,

@mpjgregoire I wasn't aware that Samuel Johnson had such renown and that people would be quoting his biographies. He seems quite interesting.

He doesn't seem to hold women in very high regard though, so I wouldn't interpret that quote too charitably.

It's probably less about realistic expectations and investing attention, and more about women as replaceable temptresses.

samueljohnson.com/marriage.htm…

mpjgregoire,
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@clacke The Life of Samuel Johnson is widely considered the greatest of English biographies -- it really is very good, giving you an idea not just what he did, but what it would have been like to know him. And he was a very interesting fellow, with failings, quirks, and much wisdom, literary and otherwise.

Having read the biography myself, I don't think he regarded women as replaceable temptresses at all. Here, read the words of Nekayah in Rasselas: https://www.gutenberg.org/cache/epub/652/pg652-images.html

mansr,
@mansr@society.oftrolls.com avatar

@clacke @sandlapper37 A lot of people, at least those on dating apps, seem to think there's always someone better.

sandlapper37,
@sandlapper37@mstdn.social avatar

@clacke The marrieage vows ask for committment, albeit so often disregarded.

clacke,

@sandlapper37 The destination of the bus is in writing, and generally more reliable. 😅

mansr,
@mansr@society.oftrolls.com avatar

@clacke @sandlapper37 The time table not so much.

mansr,
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@clacke @sandlapper37 And buses are definitely into threesomes.

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