@mikedev Well, the fediverse is largely not acquainted with the idea of (eventual) consistency. A problem IMHO but hard to fix at this point.
Would you know this? When you observe DELETEs on Actors, in your experience, were they all sent from the instance that hosted the actor, or are there cases where other instances send it? Like some instance from where the post was reshared and reached an audience the original server didn't know about.