I'm Nate, a 28yo 🇧🇷 transgender man, very autistic and going also through a lot of stuff, but I believe sonic the hedgehog will heal me fr
oh, yeah, I post a lot of my daily thoughts, I look like a little lad without graduation but I do have one, an IT grad, I love the silly computers a lot :neocat_cool: I'm still looking for a job btw :neocat_cry:
the tags below are just related to things I'll mostly follow here :neocat_flop: so...
Had a very interesting penny-drop moment the other morning regarding gender and identity. Reminded me strongly of the exact moment c.2017 when I suddenly realised 'fuck, I'm not broken, I'm asexual.'
I have never been able to refer to myself as a 'man' without cringing internally. I identify as masculine, and present as such too, but on no level do I feel like 'man' describes me. This is not new, I've only just noticed it.
Some wonderful friends were right there with me and suggested that they'd noticed as much, just from knowing me, and that perhaps I should try out investigating some sort of GNC label.
I... I like this.
Discovering asexuality (specifically Aegosexuality) freed me from self-imposed expectation. Perhaps this will do the same with gender as the former did for sexuality and attraction.