At this month’s partner/spousal bereavement support group, the topic came up of all of the moments of discovery or delight that are made more profound or joyful by having someone to turn to and share them with. This include big moments (like experiencing the recent eclipse), little moments (like learning a piece of trivia), commonplace events that are suddenly precious (like spending time with one’s children or grandchildren), and striking events whose meaning or appropriate response is hard to grasp (like finding an injured bird).
The absence of a kindred spirit who is committed to deeply knowing us forces us to find a new way of knowing ourselves and of making daily life still feel real, surprising, or enjoyable. It’s hard to stay buoyant and avoid taking ourselves too seriously without someone around interrupting our own thoughts with their silly and surprising observations.
@fitheach No bad news here. I volunteer as a facilitator for grief groups at the local hospice organization. I should have mentioned that!
BTW, I’m going to be wandering about the Highlands a bit in late May/early June! (Inverness to Skye to Glasgow.) I won’t have a car but my schedule is mine to set. I’d love to hear your recommendations on what I should do/see.
@fitheach I’ll get into Inverness on the last Tuesday in May and need to be in Glasgow by midday on Sunday. I figured I’d take the bus from Inverness to Portree or the train to Kyle. I haven’t figured out yet how to get around Skye. A friend who went 20 years ago hitched a ride with a mail carrier, but I probably shouldn’t count on that luck. Then take the train from Mallaig to Glasgow. But as of right now, I’ve not locked in anything but my flights.
@alysonsee
That sounds like a plan. There are plenty of things to see and do on Skye. Don't feel tempted to try to see everything in the Highlands. It isn't possible, and you'll return home exhausted.
Accommodation is always at a premium on Skye in the summer. Get your skates on and book. Portree would be a good base.
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