@thenexusofprivacy@zdl If you view moderating a community as a fun low-effort hobby, you're going to be a bad moderator. It takes work, it takes hard decisions, it takes being the bad guy at times.
If it's just a "spare fun-time activity", then you're going to be a bad moderator. It will cause stress and obligation.
I say this as someone who has been moderating online communities for ~25 years.